thats really helpful actually. i think something like that could help me a lot. thank you for the advice!

i definitely agree that lgbt discourse and community infighting is largely online bc the response to it all is that those people should hang out in queer spaces irl. its definitely the truth and when i was younger a lot of the rhetoric spewed online bc of that, especially in the trans community, rea...

hi sam, that does makes sense. i still feel a little bad if im thinking about it while saying im lesbian, even if nobody else knows i feel like id be lying. but i think it might just be something i should look at closer and maybe lean into the whole “fantasies arent always what we want” idea that i ...

hi aliah, i appreciate what you said about me getting to define what my labels mean for me. ive never had a lot of trouble overcoming the fact that i dont fit into the stereotypical box for being asexual and nonbinary, because most people are ok with that now, but there seems to be stricter rules an...

ive been struggling with my sexuality for years. i constantly flipflop between labels because im never sure i have one that fits me right. but i think i might be a lesbian i only want to be with people who arent men. ideally i see myself dating women and spending my life with a woman. i feel happy c...