Hi Jacob, thanks for replying! I wrote this above with lots of pain. It was a bit desperate to discover this out of the blue - it made me reflect on my values, and on the whole meaning of the relationship. Something that was built around "you changed everything" started to lose its meaning...

Hi im really sad, and I don't know which direction to take. I've been dating for almost 2 years, and I was very happy in that relationship, because everything seemed very comforting and loving. But I discovered something. My girlfriend always sold me an image that I helped her overcome traumas invol...

Hii, I have a persistent question. I've been consuming pornography since my early teens (since I was 12, I think), and sometimes I feel bad watching it. I have a lot of trouble reaching orgasms during physical sex, and I wonder if porn isn't directly influencing this, since lots of people say that i...

Thanks, Sam! Yes, this will definitely be a conversation we have - it's essential that it's something that's comfortable for both of us. Pregnancy is something that really scares me, so I plan to avoid PIV. Given the situation that occurred, there are not so many pregnancy risks since I didnt ejacul...

Hiii! Thanks. I don't think it actually broke, if not, I would have noticed somehow, i guess - but I don't trust my attention that much, haha. We didn't make that much effort, either - after all, it was something that didn't last long. But next time, I will check carefully. I am a very anxious perso...

Last saturday, I had PIV sex with my girlfriend (which lasted, at most, about 10 minutes). Some things got a little out of our control (involving some anxiety), so we stopped and I gave her all the support. I ended up not even looking to see if my condom, for example, had broken - I removed it from ...

Thanks! I just didn't understand the idea of ​​the sperm drying: in this case, that means more of a "dying" meaning, actually? It was still "wet" when my girlfriend went to take a shower, especially because it only stayed there for about 2 minutes before she washed it off. Does i...

Got ya, thanks, KierC! Even with such a short period of exposure to air and if the girl is in her fertile period, this does not tend to cause pregnancy, right?

Hi, y'all! I'm a little worried - think I need some sexual ed.

If an ejaculation occurs outside, like, on my girl's body (no penetration involved) and accidentally after 2-3 minutes a little of sperm is rubbed by fingers into the vagina while washing it during shower, are there risks of pregnancy?