It really depends. A lot of the time I am focused, but sometimes I feel like I’m really focused on having and orgasm and I think that may be adding pressure. I’ve read you need to focus on what you’re feeling, but I don’t really know how to do that without feeling too caught up on it.

Hi! Thank you for the response. I suppose it’s possible that I’ve had a very weak orgasm before, as I think I have felt a release of tension, but I’m not so sure. I still don’t know how I’d really know for sure, and if I have felt a weak orgasm before, is there a way I can make them more intense to ...

I’m 21F and I cannot orgasm. I have been masturbating by crossing my legs and squeezing them together since I was young, but I have never been able to orgasm. I have a boyfriend now, and whenever he tries to stimulate my clitoris either through oral sex or did hands, it always feels too intense and ...