Dear Latha, Thank you so much for your response. A lot of the stuff you have said has made a lot of sense to me - she is not really willing to question why I feel the need to do the things I do, or stay away from her so much. I do see why it can be considered emotional abuse, but to me that is a per...

I have a weird relationship with my mother, like its really inconsistent. As a child, she really disliked me (she never really wanted children, and struggled with raising 2 as I have 1 brother a year younger than me), and even though that part of it has changed now that I'm older, she still is stran...

Hi Sam,
Thank you for the link to the article. I guess the break will be continuing then
Sorry for late reply
- Garfield

Hi Latha, thanks for your response. I'm not really able to get ahold of toys, and most fantasies or similar just don't seem appealing for me TBH. I've kind of been on a break for the past few months (in that it doesn't feel good and I've pretty much just stopped), but I kind of miss it. I don't know...

Hii I know this is like a strange topic but I need help. Basically, I've almost completely lost any feeling of pleasure from masturbation. I used to find it really like pleasurable and enjoyable, but recently (like within the last 3 months), nothing seems to work anymore. I can like orgasm, but it t...

Hi Sam, Sorry for my late reply (have been ill so am sleeping it off). TBH I've always been a bit of a loner even when I was young, I think it was too much reading and a lack of proper social skills that started it LOL! I don't really know how to like find queer people. I do live in London, but most...

Hi Sam W, So basically there are only 4 of us total in the "friend group", which is YF, the 16 year old (who has kinda basically become not my friend, as she is shitty), and then 1 more who is also a lesbian. The other lesbian goes to a different school, though since we finished secondary ...

Hi Latha! Thank you so much for your advice. With my YF, she is away on holiday right now so luckily I have had a bit of a 'respite' to just think about my ideas for boundaries and what makes me comfortable, so once she is back I will try to really apply those boundaries. YF isn't the one saying the...

Hi Sam, Thank you so much for your reply + your advice. I do see what you are saying with the oxygen mask metaphor, though I do worry about her. I may take a step back, and encourage her to talk to others or take what I say and do with it what she wants - as in let her hear me even if she doesn't li...

Hey this is my first post on here (but I've been reading as a guest user for a while), and while I have read the FAQs and that stuff I may make some "oopsies" so if anything's off just LMK. Onto the actual question/topic: Basically, I am a 17 year old very out lesbian (got outed at school ...