Hi HannaP, I already been in therapy last year, it didn’t go so well. I didn’t like it very much, it made my anxiety way worse and i felt awfull during those weeks. It just wasn't a dynamic that it helped me, and i didn’t have money to keep going, so i just stoped going. (I went for other reasons th...

Hi HannaP! I checked out the new article you suggested about the dating mindset, and there are very interesting points there, but that article assumes i already asked that person on a date or that i've been asked, and explores it in a way that no matter what happens im gonna learn something from tha...

Hi Ro S! Thanks for your answer. About what drives me to date..im not sure i can anwser that. I feel that i want someone, i want to be someone's girlfriend and have one, i want to have someone that i can be myself with. I want to be able to do all those romantic things everyone does while dating, bu...

Hi Latha! Well, i live in Coimbra, so i can't go to these events in Lisbon that you said, but thank you anyway. About me saying they are out of my league, its true, because i never have a chance with them to begin with. First things first, they're usually way older...teachers..and i know that's a pr...

Hi Sam W! Thank you for your reply. You're right i think its not good to rush into something just to say i did it, but i really would like to have that experience. I know that sounds desperate, but as you suggested, what advice would you give me, so i can make that happen? Find someone? Since im que...

I'm 17 year old girl, almost 18, and i never had my first kiss or first time yet. Well when it comes to kissing, yes i have been kissed before, but i never kissed anyone (if that makes sense) - When i talk about being kissed i mean those childish kisses that consists on just press their lips togethe...