I feel like I definitely struggle with the second point the most. I am constantly looking for bad words when related to vore. Since vore is very different from the norm, it’s easy to find people hating it, and hating people who are into it. I know it’s bad to do. I know it makes things worse for me....

The thing is… I’d love to be able to have “normal” sex with a partner. To me, sexual life is pretty important in a relationship… Like I’ve said before, I don’t really like the concept of engaging with vore with a partner. This fetish is very private to me. But at the same time… I feel like It’s not ...

In my opinion… I do fear it’s bad. I do feel I shouldn’t enjoy it. But I don’t want to. I guess that’s why I keep wanting to be reassured over and over. My sex drive has been messed up since I was little. I mean… I was exposed to vore content at a very young age. I saw fetish content I shouldn’t hav...

Thank you so much for that. Seeing the words “you aren’t ruined” almost made me tear up. (In a good way of course) So… if this really isn’t something bad… and I don’t have to worry about getting rid of it… Can I just… enjoy it? That’s not bad? You guys really think I’ll be able to find love? Even wi...

I guess I’m just scared that I’m supposed to be changing because I’m getting older. Almost ALL of my favorite fictional characters are between the ages of 14-18. I never really thought it was weird that I’ve liked the same characters and things since I was like… 12? But now after seeing that TikTok…...

This is something I’ve been wanting to ask about/get off my chest. The other day I saw a TikTok about how a lady in her 30’s still reads about Harry Potter fanfiction to this day. And most comments were normal, until I scrolled down a bit. People started calling her weird for reading/writing fanfict...

Feeling super confused lately so the urge to post it here instead of just to myself convinced me. I’ve had a really high sex drive lately, I’ve had a pretty high one since I was little and discovered vore unfortunately. Since my intrusive thoughts, urges, and sex drive have been pretty high, I have ...

Yeah, that’s true! I’m trying to get better at telling myself that different doesn’t equal bad. It’s just hard when it’s so… unique and specific. I try to tell myself that at least I don’t hurt anyone, and don’t do anything illegal, but my intrusive thoughts still like to tell me that this is the wo...

I try my very best to avoid places where people kink shame towards vore, and I do a pretty good job. I think it’s the fact that I have already seen hate, so it sticks with me. And I absolutely love rereading the responses when I’m feeling particularly bad. I have OCD, which isn’t usually something I...

So yeah, I actually do suffer from other anxiety not relating to this kink (which I take medication for) Usually when I get other bad thoughts and start worrying about other parts of myself, I am able to shake it off relatively quick. But this fetish is the one thing that always comes back. Always m...

Little update! While I am beginning to try and write down self care that might work for me, I have also been talking my mom a bit more! I’ve made some realizations I guess? Or some things that make me confused. So… Like I’ve said before, I can occasionally get turned on by things other than vore, bu...

Thank you so much for this advice! It’s always so reassuring to hear about similar experiences. Usually when I’m about to engage with my kink, or use it to sexually pleasure myself, I feel decently okay with it. Like you said, it’s something intimate for me, and sometimes I can definitely reason wit...

This is so reassuring! Thank you so much!

And no, I don’t actually have a self-care routine for my bad days.


I’d love some advice on how to make a good routine!!

Really? I mean, don’t get me wrong. I do find more regular kinky and smut things mentally appealing, but my body just doesn’t react as much as I’d like. So, to actually get off, all I have to do is read/look at some vore art and then… I actually get off. Almost right away. I just feel so… broken? Wh...

Hey so… um. Just a quick update. (If I am distracting anyone from helping other people, don’t feel the need to respond) So um… I didn’t mention it before, but sometimes I DO get turned on from things other than vore. But… the problem is that I can’t fully get into it, and get off. So… today for exam...

Thank you so much for these kind words! Seriously! It just seems hard to believe all these word! For so long I’ve hated myself. Despised my sexual interest. Felt such intense shame for having a vore fetish. For so long I’ve felt like it would be hopeless to find love. Hopeless to tell myself I’m nor...

That makes sense. I think the thing that always comes back to haunt me, is that this isn’t a very socially acceptable fetish. People like to assume that it’s all about cannibalism, and that the people who like it are horrible people, and are real life cannibals. I promise this is not why I feel I ge...

This definitely helps quite a bit! I think besides the whole fear of not being able to find a partner thing, the main thing that really upsets me, is that this vore stuff is really one of/really the only thing that turns me on, and can get me off. Despite the fact I have been interested in “normal” ...

Sorry it’s taken me so long to respond. I’ve gotten really anxious about responding. I hope you’ll still respond. Um. I’ve been wanting to get an opinion on another thing. So, like I’ve said before. I like soft vore. And when I say that, I mean vore where no one gets hurt, and there’s no digestion o...

I’ve already made a post here before, and I feel guilty for making another one, but only feel comfortable posting this here. I have a vore fetish. Yep. Plain and simple. And I hate it. Before you wonder, yes. This is pretty much a fetish for me. Nothing else really does it for me. Sometimes I can fo...

I’m terrified I’ll never find a partner or love :( I (female) have a very weird kink/fetish, and I hate it. I hate it so much. I’ve had it since I was little, and I can’t help it. Since I was younger, I had always had a fascination with bellies, but I never knew it was a sexual thing. Then when I go...