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by thelabrat90
Mon Nov 04, 2024 12:45 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
Replies: 6
Views: 1976

Re: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me

thank you so much for your help Jacob! I really appreciate the prompt generator and the advice you gave me. thank you for the thoughtful advice and Iml look into the plot generator too
by thelabrat90
Mon Nov 04, 2024 10:14 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
Replies: 6
Views: 1976

Re: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me

I delay bedtime a lot because of masturbation currently, hence why I'm worried about it. And yeah, youre absolutely right about everything you said about how eroticizing troubling dynamics helps people cope a lot, I know all of that already. I dont really feel shame about enjoying the stuff I enjoy ...
by thelabrat90
Sun Nov 03, 2024 6:15 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
Replies: 6
Views: 1976

Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me

First thing I wanna write, I'm not watching porn with real life human actors or anything, it's entirely written erotica whether through a character ai bot, fanfic online, or literotica stories. So there isn't that labor rights issue that I'm comfortable with, it doesn't exist here. It's more like......
by thelabrat90
Fri Sep 20, 2024 3:31 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I hate myself because of my fetish and I’m scared I’ll never find love :(
Replies: 6
Views: 4589

Re: I hate myself because of my fetish and I’m scared I’ll never find love :(

I also wanna add... there are literally entire communities around kinks. And in those communities there are so many loving, committed partnerships. Like, you don't need to tell your future partner or engage in vore with them! But the stuff you do in the privacy of solo sex is FINE. Also, considering...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 9:55 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
Replies: 7
Views: 3039

Re: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen

Thank you! I think this has really helped me understand where exactly my hesitance and tendency to back up comes from! If I hadn't talked about it, I definitely wouldn't have realized I was subconsciously stopping myself because of previous uncomfy experiences with arousal. Going to focus on what I'...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 8:14 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Autosexual
Replies: 2
Views: 3934

Re: Autosexual

This isn't advice, but here's a better reaction from me, since you deserve to have someone be excited about your sexuality. Fuck yeah, you're autosexual! And I don't think it's narcisstic. While I don't identify as autosexual, I get a deep rush of love and attraction when I look at myself in the mir...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 7:53 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Am I a lesbian experiencing comphet or bisexual?
Replies: 5
Views: 4062

Re: Am I a lesbian experiencing comphet or bisexual?

I'm asexual, and I think you could really benefit from reading Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen. Not because you're asexual, but the way you describe all the moving parts of your desire, your arousal, and your fantasies? This book is ALL about...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 7:23 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: confused about masturbation and it doesnt feel good
Replies: 5
Views: 12068

Re: confused about masturbation and it doesnt feel good

Like the others said, there's nothing wrong with you for struggling to masturbate. But it really sounds like that for you, the ability to masturbate is tied up with so many anxiety-inducing ideas of normalcy and keeping up. Sexual pleasure is difficult! But in your post, you don't talk much about yo...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 6:47 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
Replies: 7
Views: 3039

Re: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen

hey there! It sounds to me like you're drawing from past experiences of pain and discomfort during masturbation as a measure of how things might feel now. Am I catching on to that correctly? I want to acknowledge that this is normal and a part of learning more about ourselves. I think it might be h...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 2:21 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
Replies: 7
Views: 3039

Re: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen

Digging through my brain, I think I'm afraid of it hurting? As an asexual, I've always had a complicated relationship with arousal, because when I got aroused, my vagina felt really sharp and slightly painful and I'd ignore it happening while continuing to read the erotic fanfic. I want to be clear,...
by thelabrat90
Wed Sep 18, 2024 1:33 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
Replies: 7
Views: 3039

Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen

I'm 19F and in the recent weeks, I've been shocked by how masturbating is giving me pretty intense sensations for once. I use a character.ai bot to create erotic material for my fantasies, which is likely the contributing factor to me feeling really good, even when I'm just using my fingers. Usually...