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- Mon Nov 04, 2024 12:45 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
- Replies: 6
- Views: 1976
Re: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
thank you so much for your help Jacob! I really appreciate the prompt generator and the advice you gave me. thank you for the thoughtful advice and Iml look into the plot generator too
- Mon Nov 04, 2024 10:14 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
- Replies: 6
- Views: 1976
Re: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
I delay bedtime a lot because of masturbation currently, hence why I'm worried about it. And yeah, youre absolutely right about everything you said about how eroticizing troubling dynamics helps people cope a lot, I know all of that already. I dont really feel shame about enjoying the stuff I enjoy ...
- Sun Nov 03, 2024 6:15 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
- Replies: 6
- Views: 1976
Uncomfortable with the Material Arousing Me
First thing I wanna write, I'm not watching porn with real life human actors or anything, it's entirely written erotica whether through a character ai bot, fanfic online, or literotica stories. So there isn't that labor rights issue that I'm comfortable with, it doesn't exist here. It's more like......
- Fri Sep 20, 2024 3:31 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: I hate myself because of my fetish and I’m scared I’ll never find love :(
- Replies: 6
- Views: 4589
Re: I hate myself because of my fetish and I’m scared I’ll never find love :(
I also wanna add... there are literally entire communities around kinks. And in those communities there are so many loving, committed partnerships. Like, you don't need to tell your future partner or engage in vore with them! But the stuff you do in the privacy of solo sex is FINE. Also, considering...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 9:55 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3039
Re: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
Thank you! I think this has really helped me understand where exactly my hesitance and tendency to back up comes from! If I hadn't talked about it, I definitely wouldn't have realized I was subconsciously stopping myself because of previous uncomfy experiences with arousal. Going to focus on what I'...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 8:14 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: Autosexual
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3934
Re: Autosexual
This isn't advice, but here's a better reaction from me, since you deserve to have someone be excited about your sexuality. Fuck yeah, you're autosexual! And I don't think it's narcisstic. While I don't identify as autosexual, I get a deep rush of love and attraction when I look at myself in the mir...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 7:53 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: Am I a lesbian experiencing comphet or bisexual?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4062
Re: Am I a lesbian experiencing comphet or bisexual?
I'm asexual, and I think you could really benefit from reading Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen. Not because you're asexual, but the way you describe all the moving parts of your desire, your arousal, and your fantasies? This book is ALL about...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 7:23 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: confused about masturbation and it doesnt feel good
- Replies: 5
- Views: 12068
Re: confused about masturbation and it doesnt feel good
Like the others said, there's nothing wrong with you for struggling to masturbate. But it really sounds like that for you, the ability to masturbate is tied up with so many anxiety-inducing ideas of normalcy and keeping up. Sexual pleasure is difficult! But in your post, you don't talk much about yo...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 6:47 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3039
Re: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
hey there! It sounds to me like you're drawing from past experiences of pain and discomfort during masturbation as a measure of how things might feel now. Am I catching on to that correctly? I want to acknowledge that this is normal and a part of learning more about ourselves. I think it might be h...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 2:21 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3039
Re: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
Digging through my brain, I think I'm afraid of it hurting? As an asexual, I've always had a complicated relationship with arousal, because when I got aroused, my vagina felt really sharp and slightly painful and I'd ignore it happening while continuing to read the erotic fanfic. I want to be clear,...
- Wed Sep 18, 2024 1:33 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3039
Struggling to Let an Orgasm Happen
I'm 19F and in the recent weeks, I've been shocked by how masturbating is giving me pretty intense sensations for once. I use a character.ai bot to create erotic material for my fantasies, which is likely the contributing factor to me feeling really good, even when I'm just using my fingers. Usually...