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by arctostaphylos
Wed Jun 22, 2016 10:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: envy in a cis/trans poly relationship
Replies: 6
Views: 2281

Re: envy in a cis/trans poly relationship

Tom Waddell is a SF public health center and I would have to choose it as my "medical home" to receive services there. Since I live in Alameda County I'm technically only supposed to have a medical home in Alameda County, though I managed to get myself "grandfathered" in to a SF ...
by arctostaphylos
Wed Jun 22, 2016 9:12 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: envy in a cis/trans poly relationship
Replies: 6
Views: 2281

Re: envy in a cis/trans poly relationship

Thanks. With respect to therapists, the thing that's stumping me is finding someone licensed. Trainees are really easy for me find and I've seen several (and most of the queer organizations I've asked about therapy only have trainees), but I find it really frustrating trying to work with folks who a...
by arctostaphylos
Tue Jun 21, 2016 5:25 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: envy in a cis/trans poly relationship
Replies: 6
Views: 2281

envy in a cis/trans poly relationship

I have a poly jealousy negotiation issue that has me a little stumped. And actually, since it has me stumped, and since this website gets a huge volume of complex questions, I'll start with this: I'd love some pro-tips for finding a trans and poly-friendly therapist in the SF Bay Area who accepts Me...
by arctostaphylos
Sun May 24, 2015 9:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: bf is into me, but not my trans body
Replies: 3
Views: 1541

Re: bf is into me, but not my trans body

Hey Heather, Thanks for appreciating the geekiness - I used to do habitat restoration. To answer your questions - lately means about 2 months. I'm glad you asked for clarification about whether things definitely won't be sexual in the future - he says he feels fluctuation in how much it matters that...
by arctostaphylos
Sun May 24, 2015 12:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: bf is into me, but not my trans body
Replies: 3
Views: 1541

bf is into me, but not my trans body

I'm a queer trans guy in a relationship with a queer cis guy. We've been dating for a bit over a year and on emotional and intellectual levels have a strong connection that's fulfilling to both of us. Lately though, the sexual part of our relationship has been hard for me. While I see libido as flui...