Thank you, will give these a read later today! Again, appreciate all your insights, advice, and reassurance throughout these last couple of days. Even though I am still a bit anxious constantly about all that happened with my situation (regardless if anything did or did not happen like Jacob mention...

Yes, please share what you can -- that would be SUPER helpful as now I feel somewhat "scared" to even have sex again, should everything turn out okay. Thank you so much, KierC, for your help and support in this matter. I have really benefitted from being able to talk about my worries and m...

I definitely think that that is the correct route to go while I try to get in a good headspace, not only for me but for my partner as well. If this is another case of my psyching myself out when it is not needed (which is my hope), which has happened many times before as I feel like I think any amou...

Ah okay -- that makes sense. Yes, definitely, the primary feelings I experience are feeling like I am out of control of what just happened (and how can I instantly fix), feeling like I did something wrong and possibly hurt my partner's future/plans, and the feeling of disappointment from both of the...

Yes, that would be extremely helpful! In all honesty, I am one that thinks alone and acts alone, however, in cases like these it has been great to express my thoughts and worries to whomever will listen, regardless of if they are irrational or crazy. One question I have, an apologies if its a dumb q...

Hi Jacob, Thank you your reply — definitely helps my current anxiety. It’s a great point you brought up of my question basically being a “what if” as I have zero clue if there was anything even there (it was pretty early on in our fooling around, like 2 minutes in). I spoke to my partner and they en...

Hi Anya, I appreciate the response! Good to know and it kind of helps my anxiety here. I was just worried about the potential possibility of there being any precum on my boxers and maybe the condom somehow touching that precum (if any) while taking the boxers off and then putting my condom inside of...

Hi all, I hope every is well! Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I'd like to start out by saying, any opinions, guidance or advice is greatly appreciated! My girlfriend and I were fooling around, as a semi-young couple does -- We were both in our undergarments at the time. I was doing ou...