Hello, I'm writing because I have a concern that seems to be without any comfortable solution. Basically, I'm wondering if I'm looking at this situation the right way, or putting too much pressure on it. In short, I'm in my 20s, living in NYC, attending graduate school, and working part-time to help...

I think we communicate pretty well, and feel pretty close to one another, just in a natural way. There's stuff I have difficulty getting across, and a lot of our conversations are about him. But for the most part, it's good. He's very busy in terms of work--he's a freelance video game designer and h...

I think he'd be kind of sad about taking it off the table, because it would be another indication that something bad is happening. I'd be kind of sad too, simply because it's still a gamble that occasionally pays off really nicely haha. But I could bring it up with him and see.

I don't really push for intercourse, honestly. The last few times I've been giving him head and he's wanted to move forward and grab a condom, etc. And in answer to your question, we haven't used vibrators or anything. I have on my own, but not with a partner. I'm not terribly inclined to try, just ...

I can't tell whether it's a feedback loop for him, but it certainly is becoming one for me.

Yes, we've done quite a lot of oral and manual/hand stuff. It's usually fun. But it's getting to the point where I think we're both stressed about the intercourse thing, why it's possible sporadically, etc. I hate the mention of incompatibility. It sounds so permanent

Hello, I'm having some concerns about my sex life--it's becoming really stressful for me. My boyfriend has a lot of difficult staying hard during intercourse. Most of the time, we'll either take a break for a few minutes or just sort of lay back and chill with one another. That's mostly fine, but it...

Hello, I have a few questions about emergency contraception. I unintentionally had genital-to-genital contact with my boyfriend last night (his penis touching my vulva with no actual penetration). I was tired and it was dark and I thought he was wearing a condom. He didn't ejaculate but I know there...