Hey Heather! It's a relationship that's almost 2 years old. It's a mix of both things: although it has its sexual side, it's much more based on the emotional, loving and friendly aspects. I don't feel exactly 100% prepared for this kind of change, I guess, you know? She's my first girlfriend, just a...

I've reached an unexpected stage: I've stopped putting my girlfriend on a pedestal, idealizing everything about her, and even seeing her as "perfect." I imagine this is actually ideal — after all, no one is perfect, and it's a more realistic view of relationships. It's crazy because ideali...