Good morning. Oh yeah, id like to talk about how to make things better for her and how the trauma might be impacting her. Gathering those resources would be great, thanks! I would like to set her up to chat, but right now she told me that we are on a almost no contact break (we tell each other abou...

Hey theman123, So glad to hear you're taking responsibility and working through it! Do you mean "as a point of reference" rather than "for evidence"? The latter sounds more than a bit defensive! If a point-of-reference is needed for your conversation, remember you do both still ...

By the way, one thing you may be able to do quickly and easily to alleviate some of your girlfriend's pain is to remove that post on that subreddit. She doesn't need to know or see that people are still talking about this or see those responses again, and it certainly didn't offer you anything good...

Oh yeah, id like to talk about how to make things better for her and how the trauma might be impacting her. Gathering those resources would be great, thanks! I would like to set her up to chat, but right now she told me that we are on a almost no contact break (we tell eachother about eachother's da...

I want to add one more thing here. I did go and look at your post on that subreddit, and it made me extra glad that you found your way here. It's very clear by looking at the responses there that the vast majority of people who answered have no training or education in sexual assault, consent or he...

Yes, it does make sense to me now and now I understand completely. For some reason before I thought that when people went to second base that they just did it, but I know now that that was not the right way to do it AT ALL. Right now we are on break for a week, but as soon as it ends this Saturday I...

Hello! Its been tough because I don't know how I'll live with myself. I'll give a brief timeline We are both in college and we started dating this year in April. We became official a week before school ended, in the first week of may. Apparently she said that I was getting touchy in that last week a...