No, as far as he is concerned I eat and bathe every night. Well, the stress should end soon. I've had a do or die history assignment that is due tomorrow and I'm still only halfway done. If I don't do it, I WILL fail the year in my history class, and my dad has said there will be major consequences ...

However I am exceptionally good at ranting

Ummm, not really. Sorry I'm not the best at initiating conversation. I guess lately it just seems like I can't do enough to please him. I've been trying hard to get a good grade in school for the year, but that takes up a lot of my time. I am supposed to wash my dogs every weekend, but I've been so ...

I would like to discuss more if it isn't a problem, any ideas as to what to discuss?

Apologies, I've been extremely busy these last few days. Thing have gotten better, I'm at least talking more with my dad more. I did speak with him and he did admit that my choices with my boyfriend were partially the reason my judgement is being re-evaluated. Things have been good with my boyfriend...

Alright, I'd be happy if you would continue this conversation with me, as well as Johanna.

And an update with my Dad, I went to talk to him, and he did say that my decisions regarding not doing anything about the rape, and having sex with John were parts of the reason he said my judgement is under review

Somewhat. I can understand that point of view, but I also don't exactly want his parents to know, considering I go to the same church they pastor for. just like he keeps some of my secrets that I don't want his family knowing. For instance, that my father has a nasty temper, or when myou mother was ...

Umm, the red flags? Personally I don't see much problems with my boyfriend, and it is practically impossible for me to stay mad at him unless he did something terrible. He just has an aura that makes everyone around him happy, and it's like his super power to make people laugh. He has helped me thro...

I'm open to talking about both

Thank you for all the advice concerning my relationship with my father! It's been very helpful and I think I'm starting to get the courage to go and talk to him. Where my boyfriend is concerned, I feel like I haven't been very clear on the matter. My dad and my boyfriend get along very well, and my ...

You are quite right Heather, thank you for the correction, but in my experience, blue balls can actually be quite painful and last a few hours. Now I have no idea if that is typical of it or not, but that is what I know of it.

You are right, I should talk with him. And I know I should deep down, I am just hesitant to actually talk with my dad about it. He said in one of our previous conversations about sex he thought I was too young, but I don't think age really matters, as long as you enjoy it and are safe about it. I gu...

Kind of. He has always given me a lot of freedom with what I do, probably because he knows I'll find other ways to do it if I really want to. But because my life is here, I choose not to move with my mom to Texas. Just recently I feel like there have been a lot of problems, and I'm still not sure if...

He just needs to remember that masturbation is a healthy part of human life, and sometimes not masturbating can cause health problems like blue balls. Lots of people masturbate, and I'm sure you could name any world leader, and they have masturbated too. Its completely natural to masturbate, it's no...

(Sorry if this is long, theres just a lot to this story) I'm a 16 year old girl living with only my dad since my mom moved to Texas to take care of my grandma. When I was 15 1/2 I was eager to lose my virginity. I didn't see a point in keeping it and I just wanted to get it out of the way. So at my ...