To reply to your question, I did talk to her about my concerns and I told her I have been diagnosed with OCD and that concern might be an intrusive thought causing a phobia. She said I need to trust her and she wouldn't hurt me and I explained I do trust her but I still have a phobia of that positio...

I really need help and advice. I have a wonderful new girlfriend and had to explain to her that most of my sexual life, I have a legit phobia of cowgirl position (I also have OCD if that's relevant). I want her to feel good and I did make her climax in missionary but with cowgirl -i'm worried about ...