I think it's because I am such a what if person, I always focus on the what ifs and maybes rather than the logical and rational answers. I'm a worrier and very obsessive, although talking to yo now it's become clear that I am not gay, I actually feel a lot more at ease trusting myself

Thanks heather, I only saw the bit about cookies now haha. I guess you're right, I obviously do like guys. It's just comforting and reassuring to get an opinion from someone who doesn't overthink like I do. I overthink things past the point of reason. So I like hearing the opinion of someone who add...

Thanks heather. While I accept I must learn to trust my feelings myself, for the time being peace of mind would be fantastic. Even just your opinion, like would you think someone was attracted to men of they told you what I wrote above ? Again I mean I know that it means I'm attracted to men but a s...

Hi heather! Thanks for the advice ! However I do have a question! I always doubt all my thoughts and feelings. I'm a what if Persian who always focuses on the negative .. Now from my above posts would you say I am attracted to guys ? Like I know 100% I find guys super hot, like I know that if opport...

You see I had never really had a best friend. I was always in groups where I felt like if any person was diaposable it was me. But this girl wanted to be friends with me and I loved the fact that I finally was someone's first choice! Yeah I have a very hard time trusting my own feelings. I think it'...

Hi Amanda. Looking back I feel uncomfortable with how obsessed we were with each other. It was a toxic friendship. Also the idea of being anything other than straight doesn't sit well with me because growing up I always thought I was straight because of how I liked guys. I don't remember feeling lik...

Hi scarleteen team! Okay so I am really confused about my sexuality. long story short, as long as I can remember I've found guys to be physically attractive. Loads of guys who I think are so hot and absolutely unreal. It was like when I looked at them I just felt something, like something kind of cl...