That hugely helps, thank you so much. I think the reason the conversation freaks me out is the idea of tying my desirability and worth in a relationship to my ability (or lack thereof) to have sex, which logically i know isn't right, but it still bothers me. I'll definitely keep this all in mind mov...

Might be a slightly triggering topic? I'm being vague, but i'm talking around sex oriented CPTSD, so take that as you will. So me and this girl have realised we want to date each other (yay) which is great and fun, but i realised that a relationship means i have to actually bring up my inability to ...