thanks so much, andy! that makes a lot of sense and is a very helpful way to look at it. i appreciate your response!

hello! so a few days ago i had an encounter with a guy where he definitely had pre-ejaculate on his hands when he fingered me. he went deep, i’m not on any birth control and i was ovulating. so obviously my brain went into adhd anxious mode and i scoured the internet to determine if this was a valid...