I’m interested in both—pleasure during sex in general and experiencing orgasm in a more intentional, satisfying way. I might have been expecting something more intense or obvious, so I wasn’t sure if what I felt counted as an orgasm. I thought I had to ejaculate to know for sure, but I do experience...

Why can’t I reach orgasm during sex? I know that not all women orgasm from vaginal penetration, but I want to know what it feels like. Even when I try to do it myself, I end up giving up midway or lose interest. However, when I press something against my vagina, like a pillow or a vibrator, I feel a...