Hi Hannah, when I do try masturbating, it’s enjoyable for a few seconds (about 20-30) and then the vibrations become painful and that is on the lowest setting. Before I bought a vibrator, I tried using just my hand but that didn’t bring any pleasure. It just felt like pressure on my clitoris. I don’...

Yes before I try solo play, I set my led lights to something that gets me in the mood more, I might fantasize about something, I play with my nipples and try to touch my body the same way my bf does. Now that I’ve read the articles, I’ve performed oral sex on my bf and he’s done it once to me but I ...

In reference to your first paragraph, that makes total sense! I definitely will speak to my partner about developing a safe word and talking about things we both want. I find it easier to please him than it is to please myself though. So that will probably be more for me Lastly, I will definitely ta...

Hi Caitlin! I have tried using my own natural lubricant and the water based and a combination of both. Nothing works :( And by foreplay wdym? I have an idea but I’d like it if you clarified what you meant by that. Also, I get aroused out of nowhere. I could be talking to my bf and I’d start feeling ...

Hi again. For context, In almost all aspects of my life, I want to be in control of basically everything and I am constantly using my brain. But when it comes to romantic relationships, I just want my bf to do everything for me and be in control. And I don’t mean normal control. I mean like I’m just...

I saw someone posted something similar but Hi ladies, I am 17 going to be 18 this year and I am having trouble with fingering. I’ve gone to my doctor to make sure my hormone levels are normal and they told me to get water based lubricant to help with vaginal penetration. I’m pretty sure I don’t have...