Well, how did you connect and set up a date/hangout the first time? Or, how do you ask a friend to go do something with you? However you did this before, or ask friends about doing something, that's how you do it with this, in a word. :) That said, if you feel so uncomfortable with this guy you don...

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For the testing, looks like you have a Planned Parenthood near you: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/texas/arlington/76015/arlington-health-center-2244-91620/std-testing-treatment With this guy, it sounds like you probably won't feel so great about casual sex again, since you say you ...

Mind sharing your zip code? With that, I can locate clinics near you. Per contacting him, again, the status question is pretty irrelevant, especially after the fact. So, it seems to me contacting him is really about if you want to pursue sex with him again, or anything further. How do you feel abou...

We would never call someone stupid here, just so you know. You took risks you didn't want to take. You don't need us to tell you that, you know that already. So, yes, oral sex poses risks of some STIS. Swallowing or not doesn't change that, it's only using a condom or not that does, so for future r...

A little long, I know, but I had to try and get the "important" details in. Please read and give some advice if you can. Also, sorry in advance for some graphic bits. So, I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I met this guy and we were both pretty attracted to each other and both kn...