Hello! I’ve been dating this guy for a month now and we really enjoy each other’s company. We went out a year ago but nothing happened and he asked me out again recently and I decided to give him a chance and now he’s my boyfriend. I do have some concerns though. There’s a girl who is 17 who is cons...

Hi everyone. I've had a rough year so far. It feels like a rough life, honestly. My dad died in a car accident when I was 2. So I'm constantly dealing with that pain and loss, even though I can't remember him at all. So I live with my aunt and uncle (who I refer to as my parents because that's all I...

It's been a week since I saw him in person. I'm still having a hard time with all of this, because we are still texting. We aren't video chatting anymore and haven't since last week when things were okay. He won't even talk on the phone with me anymore, he just texts. And rarely too. I can't get on ...

I met this guy on Facebook. He lives 3 hours away from me. We've been friends since about 8 months ago, and we've talked off and on. Things changed 3 weeks ago when we bonded over some serious things. And we talked every waking moment possible. We skipped out on sleep to video chat every night. And ...

Doesn't anyone have advice for a girl who is super anxious about meeting her boyfriend's parents?

Yeah I'm not sure what to do about it. It's been a huge struggle for me and I'm not sure how to go about dealing with it.

I would hate that so much. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that!

Wow that's possessive. I thought I was being over the top.

Does he still have you blocked on social media and everything?

I do have homework and other things like piano and art I could do. It's just difficult when I get home from class because both of my parents are at work and I'm alone and thinking way too much. But when I'm around other people I feel a lot better. I was thinking, he has this friend (his best friend)...

He was much happier today and was talking about prom and future events which is super reassuring.

I'm trying to avoid seeing her posts on social media, but I'm still constantly paranoid that he's with her even though I trust him.

He's coming to hang out with me after class today so that makes me feel better. Because he initiated it.

That makes sense! I just wish this feeling would go away and I wish I didn't have to see her in class and wonder. Every time she looks at her phone in class I'm paranoid that it's him.

We definitely don't hang out as much as we used to because he's been working a lot and we both have classes as well so we have to work it in. We are supposed to spend time together next weekend on his spring break. We are getting a cabin with a couple of his friends for a weekend. Which makes me fee...

He said that it probably didn't make me feel any better. And then he said he was going to bed. So he dropped this huge bomb on me and then went to sleep just fine. Yeah I just feel like he thinks we compromised but it really doesn't feel like it to me. And it's been all I can think about for the las...

When I first told him, he asked why I was jealous. And I said that I felt like she liked him. And then he confessed to me that they had planned on dating before. Also, yesterday when I asked who he was with, he told me "a friend and I get breakfast every week". He didn't even mention her n...

So after I told him that him seeing her alone was uncomfortable with me, he went out with her yesterday morning. Which makes me feel totally betrayed and it feels like a huge slap in the face to me. And I told him that. And he basically said I would have to deal with it. And that hurt my feelings. I...

I feel like I would just have to come to terms with him hanging out with those people. Because I don't want to control him and forbid him from seeing his friends.
It's still very hard though.

Thank you! I was really nervous to even bring it up but I knew I should've been honest with him or else it would've bothered me even more. I have also read the articles and they were a huge help too. I do enjoy him being around and he is the nicest person I've ever met and very considerate of my fee...

Update: he told me they've planned on seeing each other before.
And now that makes me even more paranoid and upset.

I started to shake the jealous feeling but now it's started to creep back. I literally just messaged him not even 5 minutes ago and told him I am dealing with it. He asked who I was feeling jealous about and I told him exactly who I'm struggling with. So hopefully that helps. I didn't want to bother...

My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months now. And he has a few female best friends. I'm fine with all of them but one. He was scrolling through his phone today and I saw that they call each other frequently and they also go out for breakfast sometimes. It really bothers me that they...

Hello! So, I've had my boyfriend for a couple months now. We haven't told each other "I love you" or anything like that, but I really do enjoy being around him. And most of the time, I think he enjoys my company. He's a year younger than me (18), and still in high school. So it makes thing...

Thanks for responding! We haven't talked about what would happen in our relationship. In all honesty, he never really formally asked me to be his girlfriend. One day we were with his friends and he introduced me as his girlfriend. So that was confusing for me. But I do know he doesn't want to be wit...

With my last serious boyfriend, I was very jealous of a girl. And I had a reason to be because he was cheating on me with her. So that's probably an underlying reason. I'm also very insecure because I'm super quiet and reserved and this girl is very outspoken and outgoing and everything that I'm not.

I think it's honestly just me being jealous of her.
And scared that she has something he'll leave me for.
I don't know how to bring that up with him though.

Thank you so much!

So it's been a little while and we've made plans to see each other tomorrow. He said he would come over for a "little bit".
But never said why. And every time I bring it up, he seems to be avoiding the topic.
Should I just straight up as him if he's going to her play?