Thanks Sam. We started the conversation and it was really useful - just knowing that she's okay with me sharing that with her really helped and I was a lot more relaxed. I was really worried about frightening her off (there are a couple of other Big Things that we're having to be extra open about ie...

Hi Emma, Thanks for your reply. I'll check out those resources, and hopefully they'll help. Jen --- Hey Heather! You must have a seriously amazing memory to remember me, especially as it's been so long...! 1. I've had counselling and therapy for some of the other abuse that happened, but have never ...

I was sexually abused. It was a chapter ago, but it severely affects my sex life now. I don't do relationships - casual sex like one night stands and informal arrangements with friends. It is incredibly rare for me to let a partner penetrate me and I have never 'cum'. A casual fling has turned into ...