It absolutely does make sense. Thank you. He has texted me about once per day that last few days and I just delete and ignore the texts--I suppose the next step is to block the number. I know he just wants attention, which he's not going to get. I've also started dating again, which helps to have so...

Okay. Thanks very much for your responses.

Thank you. That all does help very much.

I will not talk to him anymore. All of those words are helpful reminders of why.

Do you think we will ever be able to talk and be friends on any level, down the road?

Probably not. This has given me some perspective. I do think it will be very difficult for me to stick with the plan of not talking to him. I will try.

Thank you very much for that. This is very helpful.

He does have friends and family in the area. I am going to do my best to not communicate with him anymore, and allow them to be a resource for him if he truly needs to seek help from someone. I can't do more than I've already done.

Thank you for replying and for those thoughts. I think you are probably right. I suppose my next step is convincing myself that I should/want to cut off contact with him. I miss him terribly, I miss the good things of course, though I remember all the bad stuff clearly too and I'm very solid and con...

Hi, I used to post on this forum under a different handle (I forgot the login!) and found it incredibly helpful. Thank you for being such a great resource. First of all, I'm not in any danger of committing suicide, so no worries there. My ex-boyfriend (ex since 4 months now) has been sending me text...