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by Keeper_of_cats
Sun Aug 14, 2016 9:19 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Genital acne?
Replies: 3
Views: 1734

Re: Genital acne?

Oh, my doctor is wonderful and I'm very comfortable with her, the issue really lies with me. Thanks for your help!
by Keeper_of_cats
Sat Aug 13, 2016 9:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Genital acne?
Replies: 3
Views: 1734

Genital acne?

Hello! I'd like to know if it's possible to get acne on the clitoral hood. I've been on testosterone therapy for a few years, so I'm used to acne arriving where it's least expected, but I also know that there are body parts where you're not supposed to get it. This doesn't look like any lesion or so...
by Keeper_of_cats
Sun May 08, 2016 1:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Taking care of myself or running away?
Replies: 5
Views: 2451

Re: Taking care of myself or running away?

We have discussed our relationship style (at length) and made a few adjustments as needed. With her last long-term partner, I had similar feelings until I got to know them and made friends. That more or less alleviated my difficulties then and I think it will work again, but that means I have to dea...
by Keeper_of_cats
Sun May 08, 2016 6:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Taking care of myself or running away?
Replies: 5
Views: 2451

Re: Taking care of myself or running away?

Thanks for your response, Jacob! I am working on self-esteem with my therapist, but of course those kinds of deep-seated beliefs are a long journey to uproot so there are some uncomfortable experiences along the way. I did do years of cognitive-behavioral therapy, which sort of trained me to rate my...
by Keeper_of_cats
Sat May 07, 2016 6:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Taking care of myself or running away?
Replies: 5
Views: 2451

Taking care of myself or running away?

Hey! I have a question that might have a very obvious answer (maybe especially for people without histories of abuse that mess with one's sense of appropriate boundaries?). Some background: my girlfriend and I have been dating for a few years now and she's non-monogamous. She recently started dating...
by Keeper_of_cats
Fri Feb 19, 2016 8:32 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: How to Avoid an Abuser
Replies: 5
Views: 3369

Re: How to Avoid an Abuser

Hi Edith and Heather, thank you for responding. I can warn my friends, but if I told my family there's a significant possibility they would give him my contact information out of spite. I don't want to get the law involved unless he threatens me directly. I can tell my rabbi and my coworkers. I'm ac...
by Keeper_of_cats
Thu Feb 18, 2016 10:47 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: How to Avoid an Abuser
Replies: 5
Views: 3369

How to Avoid an Abuser

Hey, I'd really appreciate some advice on how I can stay safe in light of a renewal of an old threat. An ex who raped and beat me as a young teenager moved away and I cut contact with him. Many years later, he tried to contact me on Facebook. I ignored him, but now he's started talking to my friends...
by Keeper_of_cats
Wed Dec 23, 2015 3:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Abrasions? Sores?
Replies: 3
Views: 1771

Re: Abrasions? Sores?

I called the telehealth line for my province and spoke with a nurse, who said I should get a doctor to see it within 24 hours. I managed to get an appointment to see a colleague of my family doctor this afternoon and brought along a moral support, and suffered through the exam. It was pretty unpleas...
by Keeper_of_cats
Tue Dec 22, 2015 9:28 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Abrasions? Sores?
Replies: 3
Views: 1771

Abrasions? Sores?

Hi! Do you have advice on how I can differentiate between a sore from an STI and a sore from rubbing against fabric/skin? I have a flat, itchy, red sore/abrasion on the inside of my butt, near my genitals. To me, it looks like irritation from underwear and rubbing (it probably doesn't help that I pr...
by Keeper_of_cats
Sat Aug 08, 2015 8:51 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: The Implications of Age Gaps
Replies: 1
Views: 1306

The Implications of Age Gaps

Hey folks! I'm 19, and my girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now. When we started dating, I was 17 and she was 21. Our age difference has never bothered me, or anyone I'm close with (the age of consent is 16 where I live). However, some people whose opinions I respect have been recently...