Duly noted. Thanks everyone for your comments.

Hmm... I accept that everyone's differently definitely. But it still completely baffles me that a guy would not like to have a blow job? No one in all the people that I know would ever think that... Much the opposite! I'm almost rethinking the whole 'I've slept with 20 other people' - could it be a ...

I've recently slept with a date, someone who I find attractive in some ways but am not incredibly attracted to. Nevertheless there were good feelings and I thought it would be fun to try. Actually, I went to his place, really initially only thinking we'd have oral but he wanted to go all the way (no...

I know what you mean... But I think it is because of the couple months I've been trying online dating (and in addition to some dates with people I've met elsewhere) he is the closest thing to what I see as an 'ideal' partner. My ex was by no means a perfect person (I really did accommodate a lot of ...

That's true, I may be projecting onto him a bit... I mean, I wouldn't say I didn't want to talk about it because it's a touchy subject, but more so my breakup was a drawn-out and emotionally draining process... Talking about anything negative doesn't make me feel good at this point and frankly I've ...

Interesting... Is it really that terrible if people can't "think well of their exes"? I've been cheated on before so I definitely don't have anything good to say about that particular person (nor do they deserve my respect) and I don't shy away from calling them a certain expletive when ta...

Hi everyone, thanks for your responses. I agree that it is good that a person can speak honestly about it (and also have positive thoughts to their last partner - it's mixed for me as my last relationship ended in a unhappy, hurtful way), but did he have to go into such detail? Like that she is pret...

I recently went on a first date with an individual I met on a popular dating app. The date went okay overall, decent conversation (first time meeting in person after a couple days of texting), but something came up that made me feel this person may be a bit insensitive... During the date, I casually...