Thanks for the real talk, Heather. I greatly appreciate it as that is the reason I came to this forum. As far as my own sexuality goes, I never really until this past year got the chance to "advance" sexually like a healthy human being would and even then it's not really a growth. I had se...

Thanks for the reply and advice, Heather! I just want to make it perfectly clear, that the reason I used the word "force" is that I myself know I cannot make anyone do what they do not want to do and would never ask such a thing. I guess you can say I have never felt comfortable with havin...

Before I begin my post, I'd like to thank you for reading. I've been a 3 month lurker almost 4 before I decided to sign up and further educate myself on one of life's most complex issues: sex. Okay so here's my issue(s) I dated a girl for about a year and we broke up in May of this year. A couple of...