@Redskies Sure I would love to talk about that: I feel that the sexual relationship I have with myself is pretty good. If Bf doesn't feel up to something, I can usually take care of it myself. I think the big issue I have is that when I'm with my partner it sorta makes me feel weird that he can't sh...

I totally get where your coming from. Rationally, I do understand that, like in the other parts of his healing process, he needs to decide for himself the speed he wants to go at in terms of his sexuality. I need to kind of get out of my own way when it comes to this, I know he will be pleased with ...

oookay this took me a little while to answer and my thoughts may be a little scattered, but I will try to answer as coherently as I can: Yes, I do believe he is seeking improvements to better himself (and by extension us), but they may not be what needs to be at the top of the priority list. Right n...

I think our focus would benefit if it was a combination of the next three months and the overall picture, because right now BF and I are just preparing to move. I would also love more resources about abuse recovery and the way parental attitudes affect someone's sexuality. @Heather: I will be sure t...

Currently, my BF is living at college, but he would come home to his house every break. Once he graduates in about 3 months, he is going to move in with me and we plan to go low contact. Until he graduates he relies on his parents to pay his tution and is on his parents health insurance , but otherw...

@SamW: Yeah, it does..honestly it looks like he will have a long break from school next week, so we are planning on traveling and looking at apartments in our desired area as long as the weather permits, he sounded really excited about it when I talked to him about it :~)
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Also, I know what I just wrote is likely way beyond the scope of this site, it just felt really good to write it all out In fact, since I have wrote it all out I have a feeling its a sexual control issue. The fact is, when we go to a hotel, he really can separate himself from all the stressors that ...

Here's the deal: Short answer was that he did; long answer is that he still does, only under very specific conditions I met my boyfriend when he and I were both 18. When he said he didn't know much about sex, I was really naive about the kind of help he would need. I grew up in a household where sex...

Okay, lets dig in: 1. Well, I have quite bit of trunk control normally, but during sex I tend to get all floppy near the base of my spine I haven't really talked to my insurance about that since im covered by my dads insurance and I really don't want to open that can of worms right now lol 2. My spa...

Hey everybody, I was wondering if you guys could give me a little help with a few questions I have, but first I want to give some background: My boyfriend has Autism and I have spastic Cerebral Palsy. We have been together about 4 and a half years now Overall, our entire relationship is fantastic, f...

Yep, my boyfriend was tested about a year ago and I was tested about a month ago as part of a wellness exam. We are both each others only partner and we have been together about 4 and a half years now

Hi everyone!, So, I have been taking norethindrone as a birth control pill for about two and a half months. I have never missed a pill and have never been late with the pill. My issue is that I have only had one period since starting the pill. My boyfriend and I had condomless sex on September 4-5th...