Personally, the moment I was of age and could have my own health choices, I asked my doctor for a quick STI testing panel. Just a bit of blood and a urine sample, and now I am pretty sure that I don't stand a risk of giving my partner any bugs. That doesn't make you immune to STI's, though! If you c...

Absolutely! Anything for my struggling sisters, brothers, and others.

Thanks... I dunno I just feel really guilty being mad because I am still friends with the second guy, and in both scenarios I could have stopped things, but I didn't... This friend is a good guy (usually), so being mad at him feels wrong, and I feel like I should have gotten over it by now.

Hi, I am a genderfluid human. I don't want to be terribly explicit with stuff, but these things have weighed on me for two, to five, to as long as twelve years, and I don't know for sure if any of it really counts as abuse. There were two accounts. One was a short lived purely text based relationshi...

Alrighty. Thanks so much!

I have little to no experience with any of this, but I can relate to the period issues. I have PCOS, which meant I had very rare periods, and when I did have them, they were long, heavy, cripplingly painful, and sickening. However, even then, I didn't experience a lack in sex drive. In fact, for me,...

Before I was comfortable coming out as gender fluid, I told my mom that I was into, and had had a relationship with, the same sex. I did not get the outcome I had hoped for. She promised she stilled loved me, but could I try to be a little less gay? Just try? No mom, I can't. I came out to my sister...

I love Oh Joy Sex Toy, they are fantastic, and really relaxed and fun! All the info is in comic form, so... yay!

I am changing lots of medications up, and one of those is my birth control pill. I am halfway through my old one. Should I start at the beginning of the new one, the middle to pick up from where I am, or wait until this cycle is over to start the new one?

Thank you very much! I will certainly go for that.

Do you know how oil based lubricant affects silicone at all? I couldn't figure that out.

College. So awesome. Genders of all sorts are pretty darn accepted here. Bathrooms are generally less scary, but there should be gender neutral bathrooms somewhere. Ask your Student Help Office! Professors, with a professional, well worded, polite email, will do their best to accomodate you. If they...

High School. It's a whirl of drama and stress, but also filled with fun and self discovery! Things start to get easier here. Welcome to the age of the LGBTQ+ club environment! If your school does not have a club for students with sexuality or gender differences to recieve help and support... It ain'...

(OH please note:
I am not a staff member.
I am gender fluid.
I am long winded. Sorry in advance!)

Junior High. Ah, the home of your perhaps first locker room. Maybe your first romance. Perhaps even your first sexual experience. Woo-wee, that's a lot to handle! What if, on top of all of that, you find yourself desperately struggling with your gender identity? Oh my land, what a mess! Worse even, ...

No one has yet responded to this thread, so... *cracks knuckles* Prepare yourself for some advice, y'all. I am currently a college student, but will start from middle school and work my way up through high school to college. That way, I think they will show up more linearly. I will post each section...

Perhaps a condom over the intended phallus would be helpful in protecting both the hardware and my partner? If anything, my partner's safety, comfort, and happiness is what matters most, but daaaaang those prosthetics and strap ons are pricey!

Hi there! I hope I'm posting under the right thread here... Sorry if I am not! Anyways. My partner and I are... Ahem... Interested in anal sex. There. I said it. My problem here is that I, the one who is to be doing the penetrating, do not have a penis. As a gender-fluid individual, I'll be using ei...