In the case of both porn and fantasies, it's not letting them take over. If you begin to expect that from sex, or if they begin to dominate your life in any way, there is a problem. Most people use porn occasionally, and suffer no damage - it's those who become addicted that do. When it comes to fan...

Ah, thank you! I wasn't too far off in my assumptions, although that clears up the whole "genderqueer woman" thing, which I never quite understood. That helps a lot, thank you!

This is something I have wondered for a while. I consider myself to be feminine, but I have never felt like either gender in particular. However, I don't actually know what the non-binary terms mean. Agender is straightforward enough, but genderqueer? Genderfluid? Do they mean the same thing, or are...

Gender is a weird concept to me. I personally identify as feminine, but not female - I am biologically female and I'm comfortable being referred to as she/her, since that is what I look like. I just see myself as a being, more than anything, although it was confusing when I was little - I knew I was...

I have to say, it varies for me - in a relationship, I feel it a lot, I have a relatively high libido. If I'm single, though, I'm not fazed at all - I just kind of ignore it. I don't know if that's weird? I don't tend to get sexually frustrated if sex isn't an option, if that makes sense!