My boyfriend and I are both in college. For the last two years, we've been in a community college just to get some of the basics out of the way. He was recently accepted into UCLA and will be starting in January. This kind of goes without saying, but I don't want him to go. We've been together for a...

My boyfriend is a swimmer and a short and long track speed skater. He has a race tonight. Usually after practice and the actual competition, he comes home very sore. I offered to give him a massage after. Also, earlier today, we were talking and no matter what we talked about, the conversation alway...

Thanks! I like the coupon idea :) I'm making it now :) I just have trouble when birthdays come around. He's able to afford the things I say I'd love to have. And I can't afford anything for him this year, and it's a big birthday. I am basically all I can give him, and I want the night to be as meani...

I'm not so sure if this is the right forum for this question (if it should be moved and can be, let me know). My boyfriend is turning 21 tomorrow, and well, I'm broke. I asked him if there's anything he really wants for his birthday and he said he's got me, and that he doesn't need anything else. I ...

Okay thanks! I'll talk to him about it. If it's something he wants to do, would it be a good choice for me to set a limit? Like just letting him touch, and that's it? Or could it possibly help me (in a way) if I just let him go for it and do whatever he wants?

This is probably gonna sound weird, since my boyfriend and I have had sex plenty of times. I have mentioned in an earlier question that he's never seen my boobs before, since I'm really embarrassed by my size. Usually, when we're just sitting around and kissing, he tries to touch them, but I usually...

Is there anyone who could give me a general idea on what it feels like? Is it a lot like regular sex, or is it more like he'd put it in and I'd be like "ooooookay that's weird"? That's probably more of an opinion question, but I'm just curious. Also, is anal something we could do in additi...

I asked him about trying anal, and he said yes. We're going to try tomorrow. He said he'll start off with fingering, and maybe oral to help me relax to get ready for actual sex. For fingering and oral, (aside from showering before), is there anything else I should do to be ready? And when it comes t...

I have two questions, and they're both pretty different. 1. I'm really self-conscious about myself, and my boyfriend hasn't seen me completely naked before. I always keep a tank top on when we have sex. I'm a b cup and I sometimes stuff my bras, to look bigger. I'm really comfortable with him now, a...

Oops, I'm sorry. I just realized this was in the user-staff section. My bad!

You could talk to a doctor if you want. I wouldn't jump to saying touching your eye or vagina would cause anything else, but who knows. It's very possible that splitting it and scratching it just irritated it a bit. Personally, I wouldn't be worried unless it lasted for a long time

I kind of figured that doing what he did to initiate would be the easiest thing. But he seemed so confident and smooth (if that's the best word) while doing it. I'm more of the type of person who overthinks things and thinks I'd sound stupid saying something. I'll try doing what he did, but when it ...

No reason in particular. I was just curious, to be honest. I've heard people say sex feels different without a condom, and that they actually felt closer. I was just thinking out of curiosity. Dumb reason, I know

I'm kinda thinking about mentioning maybe having unprotected sex. But idk yet

I read through it and it really helped But I do have one more question. (And for all I know it may be something I missed in the reading). If I wanted to initiate/signal without saying anything, what would be a good way to start?

Thank you! Can I let you know if I need something else?

Yep, that's exactly it. Don't want to screw up. I'll read through that

Honestly, I think my problem is what would be the simplest part...actually doing it. I'm not really good at just being forward

I got over some nerves I had about sex, and told my boyfriend I'm ready. We did it last night, and it was great. Probably would've been even better if I was completely relaxed about it. I was still nervous because having someone see me naked and touch me in those ways, is all completely new to me. H...

Thank you. I will take a look. My boyfriend isn't pressuring me at all. I'm putting a lot of pressure on myself, and he's been trying to calm me down. He told me we won't do anything until I'm sure I'm comfortable. But I want that to be soon. I feel bad about making him wait so much :/

Sort of both. I'm about 6 pounds over the normal weight for my height (5'1") and I really don't think it looks good. I'm worried that when he sees me naked, he'll think the same thing I do

I sent this question in as a text, and was told it would be easier to put it on a message board. Here is the question: I'm 19 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now, and recently started talking about sex. It's something I really want to do, (and that's what I told him)...