I am actively hostile toward gender as a social system, as I see no function but harm in categorizing certain behaviors, interests, modes of self-presentation, etc. as gendered. I am completely indifferent to social gender as an aspect of identity, both for myself and other people. I do think that b...

I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling so isolated. I can offer some perspective from the other side of this kind of divide; it might help you see things in a different way that might be useful for reconciling, though I can't be sure your friends' experiences are anything like mine. I want to ...