Thanks for picking her side and basically saying I'm crazy for not liking my boyfriend's ex like 90% of people in relationships. I honestly don't care if she talks to him but she needs boundaries she's the one who needs help.

Ok.

You don't understand she won't butt out of our relationship. She is constantly posting on his facebook wall, texting him, posting on his instagram posts. He still has pictures with her up but does he have any pictures of me? No it's much deeper than what she can do that I can't. It's the fact that I...

Thanks! It's just that her body does something rare and mine is just average

It just bothers me because she has something she can do with her body but I don't have anything that my body can do but hers can't I feel less than her.

Oh don't apologize Sam W! The more oppinions the merrier! I want to do this because I want to be perfect for him and I feel like my body is boring without it. I also don't like the fact that his ex could do it and I can't, and it's not even something I can change. Thank you for the article I'll read...

How come I don't do it?

I know I just think if I was more evenly matched with her I wouldn't feel as insecure. Can every female ejaculate? Do you have to have any special parts? What would make it easier to do?

My problem would be solved if I could do it

I'll try it. I have questions about female ejaculation though

I suppose I could try! I just don't know how much time I have for it

I have a counsellor at my college that I see every once in awhile when things get bad but usually by the time I see him things are fine and there isn't really much to work through then I feel bad for wasting his time.

Oh that is completely fine! I understand being busy! I read the article all the way through and think it's a great resource. To be honest I've been in and out of counselling since I was 16 and this has always been a thing I worked on but I know it can't work if I don't want to invest myself enough i...

Thank you so much! I'll read through it!

Yes I meant women my age. I just don't get why I can't do it but she could. Infact that is the issue right there, to be honest I wouldn't care about the fact that I can't if I didn't know she could do it. All though since I started dated my boyfriend, I have found myself liking myself more. Most of ...

I guess yeah! It's just so hard to like myself especially now when I can't do what a lot of girls can do. I've tried I just feel more like I'm trapped in my body instead of that I'm living in my body.

I hate myself, I always have but after I took control and started working out and eating right I was atleast ok with myself. However, it really bothers me when I can't do things others can do because I'm beyond competitive so if I struggle with anything I immieaditely get frustrated! I've always bee...

My boyfriend and I have talked about things like this before but I've never fully told him exactly my thoughts and feelings because I don't want to sound like a protective or crazy girlfriend. We have a pretty open relationship I just feel bad because I know they ended things on a good term and they...

Hey guys I've been with my first ever boyfriend for almost 3 months and he's great. Everything is great except his ex is better than me in every single way! She can even do things in the bedroom that my body will never do no matter how hard I try! How do I deal with the fact that she is better than ...

Hey everyone! I'm 20 and I just started dating my first ever boyfriend so I'm still a little new to dating and relationships. I've went on dates with other guys but they always ended in failure and me being used. So to have a healthy relationship and to have such a loving boyfriend who treats me rig...