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by Tarho
Thu Apr 21, 2016 9:46 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

To be honest I don't really know If I feel confortable or not to do so. When I started going into all of this I didn't really want to tell my parents or anybody else actually. I decided at the time that I would explain people (mostly adult people) how I felt when I sort of had an idea of who I was i...
by Tarho
Fri Apr 15, 2016 12:12 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

As always thanks for anwsering. I understand that my atractions can change during the years, but its still hard to ignore the possibility they won't, I think I will just have to wait and see. Hi Tarho, Thanks for the update and I am happy things have been getting better for you. When you say you hav...
by Tarho
Thu Apr 14, 2016 8:44 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

You said that you worry if guys you look at might be too young for you to be attracted to. You didn't say anything about young women, so am I understanding correctly that you don't have this worry about young women? You're a pretty young person yourself, so it's completely age-appropriate for you t...
by Tarho
Thu Mar 24, 2016 6:24 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

Thank you both for your awnsers, I did read the article and I tought it was quite interesting. And yes altought I know that there is the possibility that it changes over the years. Its just that I have female friends of mine of my age are able to feel atracted for older men and I'm not. I'm able to ...
by Tarho
Thu Mar 24, 2016 5:10 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I haven't posted here in a while, but recently I'm constantly being disturbed by something about my sexuality that really scares me. As I said before on this post I feel and felt atracted by women all my life, men is where my problem is mostly located. So I tried to understand how I feel about men a...
by Tarho
Sat Jan 09, 2016 12:28 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

To start off I'm really sorry I haven't awnsered to this post sooner. On the past month my sexual confusion has got much much worse, I feel less capable of even feel atracted towards man or even women due to all the stress that I'm having, I have still decided to not ask for help. I'm very thankful ...
by Tarho
Thu Dec 03, 2015 1:20 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I guess so... thank you.
by Tarho
Thu Dec 03, 2015 8:21 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I really thank you for your willing to search that up. But I think that Portugal mental healthcare system would always require any kind of parental notification and to be honest I fear that medication might not be the best thing to help me.
by Tarho
Tue Dec 01, 2015 3:52 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

No. As I said, I was always kind of depressed, but in the sense that there was times where I felt badly, had some big insomnias... but it was something small and these periods would go sort of away. But, this time its a bigger "problem" and as I said I don't think I'm ready for telling my ...
by Tarho
Tue Dec 01, 2015 3:04 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I decided to make this post because... things have gotten worse since the last time I posted here. After all the posts and awnsers, the situation did got better for some time. I felt less confused and better in general... But recently I have gone much much worse, I feel super depressed of not knowin...
by Tarho
Sun Nov 22, 2015 2:52 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I guess you have a point, I don't quite judge myself at all for what I think about guys, but sometimes for some reason it can be very unconfortable to think about them... Anyway thanks for all of this advice you all gave me... At the beggining I was quite apprehensive to share my problem to the &quo...
by Tarho
Sat Nov 21, 2015 11:15 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

Another thing that I need to reinforce and its what most disturbs me on all of this... Is that, I'm constatly thinking on all of this, and that leaves me to be very depressed, and during those times I cant think about boys or girls in a physical or romantic way... Some times I have breaks from this ...
by Tarho
Sat Nov 21, 2015 7:31 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I have not read anything in specific from people who are questioning. But I have made lots and lots of research on the web about sexuality and such, the results of all of that information can vary... Sometimes they help because you indentify with some of the stuff people say, other times they don't ...
by Tarho
Sat Nov 21, 2015 6:26 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

I seriously thank you for all the time that you have spent writing all of that and trying to give me advice, I can assure you that it did help and that at least it sort of showed me the way. There is one thing that I would like to know your opinion on... do you think I should share my feelings with ...
by Tarho
Sat Nov 21, 2015 5:34 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Re: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

Your post was quite helpful to be honest... and yes, I think I should keep questioning label. What most bothers me is that I'm don't know who I am. I will be super happy either way... I could be straight, gay, bisexual, I would be fine anyway, I just need to know what I am and what I feel atracted t...
by Tarho
Sat Nov 21, 2015 3:15 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Very Sexualy Confused Teenager
Replies: 33
Views: 15400

Very Sexualy Confused Teenager

Hello, I'm a 14 year old male and recently I have been feeling seriously confused about my sexuality. During most of my life I always assumed I was heterosexual, I felt atracted romantically and sexualy by women, and I never quite felt atracted by men, except 1 or 2 times on childwood (but they didn...