I think that I will probably be able to visit the college. I know some students/former students that I can talk to as well, to hear their opinion. I don't think I would intrude on the space, personally, as I don't think I am male identified and I am in many ways female identified, but I don't want t...

Hi all, I am currently looking at colleges (although I have a while before I have to decide, thankfully) and I have come across a bit of a dilemma. I am AFAB, kind of walking the line between MOC lesbian and NB transguy; I generally think of myself as non-binary/genderqueer or a transmasculine lesbi...

Yeah; I don't even know if this label applies well to me yet. But I will add this one to my box of "eh, could be me, maybe" terms. It could always help me figure things out, who knows! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If I'm getting this right, this is basically a modernization of butch lesbian, with extra room made for the fact that you don't identify yourself as a cisgender woman? That pretty much sums it up, I guess. Genderqueer is the other term that kind of makes sense to me, but it has similar problems, I ...

Hi notlob (is that a Monty Python reference, btw?) Hopefully some other folks will be able to chime in as well, but one thought I wanted to offer is about considering alternate ways of thinking about attraction. Specifically, there are ways of talking about or thinking about attraction and orientat...

Hi all! (I'm new on here) What are some opinions on the use of transmasculine lesbian as a gender label? I know that personally I feel like a boy in most ways (I am AFAB), but I also feel like a masculine female in some ways (I am not a fan of the binary, clearly). I feel like these are not contradi...