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by ballerina99
Sat Mar 05, 2016 8:53 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friends with benefits
Replies: 8
Views: 3567

Re: Friends with benefits

That makes sense! Thanks so much.
by ballerina99
Thu Mar 03, 2016 12:38 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friends with benefits
Replies: 8
Views: 3567

Re: Friends with benefits

Yes oh my gosh it would be so great if you could help me figure out what to say. I have no idea how id do that!!
by ballerina99
Wed Mar 02, 2016 6:25 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friends with benefits
Replies: 8
Views: 3567

Re: Friends with benefits

Id be okay telling her, but it's kind of complicated between us. We've never talked about having any sort of relationship before, but there's this constant flirting that goes on between us. Maybe it's just me, but it feels like at some point we are just going to end up kissing. We sort of almost kis...
by ballerina99
Wed Mar 02, 2016 5:32 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Friends with benefits
Replies: 8
Views: 3567

Friends with benefits

I'm not interested in having a full blown relationship with a girl because I'm not comfortable telling too many people I'm gay. However, i have really strong feelings for this girl (and I've had them for a while) is it totally inappropriate to kiss her (if we both want to and the timing is right) bu...
by ballerina99
Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:48 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Cold sores!!
Replies: 2
Views: 1766

Re: Cold sores!!

Thank you that was really helpful!!
by ballerina99
Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:05 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Cold sores!!
Replies: 2
Views: 1766

Cold sores!!

So the per day I noticed a raised numb on my lower lip. I asked my mom what she thought it was and she said she thinks it could be a cold sore. Both my parents get them, so it's possible I could have gotten it from them. I'm not sexually active and I've never even kissed anyone. I'm just really unsu...
by ballerina99
Mon Jan 11, 2016 4:04 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Best friend issues
Replies: 6
Views: 4306

Re: Best friend issues

Thank you so much! Really helpful!
by ballerina99
Mon Jan 11, 2016 2:42 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Best friend issues
Replies: 6
Views: 4306

Re: Best friend issues

I don't know if I could talk to her or not. She's very stubborn and usually not that easy to approach about those type of thing. She also has a different idea about drugs and alcohol. I think underage people like ourselves should use them but she doesn't really seem to see a problem. I would conside...
by ballerina99
Sun Jan 10, 2016 10:45 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Best friend issues
Replies: 6
Views: 4306

Best friend issues

My best friend and I have been bestet I ends for nearly 15 years. I love her dearly and want her to be happy. Recently I found out she's been doing drugs. I don't know what to do. I don't do drugs, and I have to idea how to approach the problem. I've been telling myself to just forget about it becau...
by ballerina99
Wed Jan 06, 2016 5:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I do it??!
Replies: 12
Views: 3901

Re: Do I do it??!

Yea that's a good idea. We've hung out a couple times before and I've been good friends with her for over a year now, so we are pretty comfortable with each other. That's why I was focusing mostly on kissing.
by ballerina99
Wed Jan 06, 2016 5:09 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I do it??!
Replies: 12
Views: 3901

Re: Do I do it??!

I've never kissed anybody or even ever been in a relationship so I'm unsure what exactly it would look like if she did want to kiss me/ if she wanted me to kiss her. I don't want to make her uncomfortable in any way so I want to be sure I know what kind of signs I'm looking for if that makes sense?
by ballerina99
Mon Jan 04, 2016 5:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I do it??!
Replies: 12
Views: 3901

Re: Do I do it??!

When would be the right time to ask?
by ballerina99
Mon Jan 04, 2016 5:32 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I do it??!
Replies: 12
Views: 3901

Re: Do I do it??!

Oh yea! I will definitely make sure she wants to be kissed haha. How do I do that though? Like straight up ask if I can kiss her?
by ballerina99
Mon Jan 04, 2016 5:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I do it??!
Replies: 12
Views: 3901

Re: Do I do it??!

So you're saying hang out and then see if it feels right to kiss her? A pace for my level of experience. What do you mean?
by ballerina99
Mon Jan 04, 2016 4:20 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Do I do it??!
Replies: 12
Views: 3901

Do I do it??!

So I've had this major crush on a girl in a class of mine for a while now. Almost a year in fact. Anyways she's gay and so am I. Recently she posted something on social media that was saying how she really wants to hook up with someone but she doesn't have anyone to hook up with. I feel like maybe t...
by ballerina99
Tue Dec 22, 2015 1:31 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: What do I do???
Replies: 4
Views: 1949

Re: What do I do???

Okay thank you very much for the help!
by ballerina99
Tue Dec 22, 2015 10:11 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: What do I do???
Replies: 4
Views: 1949

Re: What do I do???

But what do I say?? I'd feel weird just out of the blue asking "hey what did that video you sent me mean?" Because of it was just a video of her singing then I don't want to make it into something that it's not and offend her. If that makes any sense. How could I ask what the video meant w...
by ballerina99
Mon Dec 21, 2015 10:11 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: What do I do???
Replies: 4
Views: 1949

What do I do???

Before I start I'd just like to say that I have no idea what my sexual orientation is. I'm thinking I'm more gay then straight but I really don't know. Anyways, I have a friend who is bisexual and I think I might have feelings for her. Recently she sent me a video of her singing this song. The words...
by ballerina99
Mon Dec 21, 2015 9:58 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Am I gay? Do I like my friend romantically?
Replies: 4
Views: 2813

Re: Am I gay? Do I like my friend romantically?

Okay so I'm 16 and a sophomore in high school. About 2 years ago I began questioning my sexuality. Whenever my friends would ask who I liked I'd always say "no one" which was partly true. I think at one point when I was 14 I liked this guy who lives around the corner from me but I really ...
by ballerina99
Sat Dec 05, 2015 11:00 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Am I gay? Do I like my friend romantically?
Replies: 4
Views: 2813

Re: Am I gay? Do I like my friend romantically?

Yes that makes sense. Would you recommend talking to her about how I feel, if I determine I do have romantic feelings for her?
by ballerina99
Sat Dec 05, 2015 10:33 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Am I gay? Do I like my friend romantically?
Replies: 4
Views: 2813

Am I gay? Do I like my friend romantically?

Okay so I'm 16 and a sophomore in high school. About 2 years ago I began questioning my sexuality. Whenever my friends would obtain permission who I liked I'd always say "no one" which was partly true. I think at one point when I was 14 I liked this guy who lives around the corner from me ...