Yes! This happens to me all the time! I get really nervous and anxious and jittery. Sometimes I'll be in the mood and halfway through, I'll be all, "EHHHHH...not really." Our bodies and minds sometimes aren't totally in sync, and it happens! I think it's totally normal! It helps that my bo...

Hi Amanda and Redskies, I had a talk with my boyfriend yesterday and he said he's totally willing to work through it with me and to wait. It definitely endeared me to him more, but I'm still anxious. I'm seeing the therapist next week and my psychiatrist today said that intimacy is something that ne...

Hi Amanda, Thanks for your advice. I think a lot of it does stem from my anxiety. I've never really had anyone find me attractive (sexually or otherwise) until recently (when I started wearing a different wig) and also in part because my dad would say men are animals and have sex on the brain all th...

Hi all, I'm a bit older than the normal user here (25) but I just became sexually active. That being said, I can't seem to get aroused with my boyfriend. A bit of backstory: My first sexual experience was a trainwreck. I've had vaginal pain upon penetration since I was young (and learned I have a re...