I think being in the moment and acknowledging that there really is no competition will help. Actually, to be honest...my boyfriend had done something a few months back that triggered an insecurity I have within myself and my uprbinging with my parents and it happened to involve his ex girlfriend. I ...

Thank you. I appreciate it. I know it's not very helpful for either of us for me to feel this way. I will consider all your advice because it is true. I just wish I could figure out a way to stop the paranoia...the tiny voice in my head that says "oh no what if he's done this with her..." ...

I've been in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and recently we had decided to have sex with each other for the first time. From the very beginning of our relationship we have been honest about our past sexual relationships (I was a virgin and he had two past sexual r...