Thank you for responding and recommending a good looking article, Karyn. Anyways, both my girlfriend and I feel that if we were to preform these sexual acts on a regular bases, as with many things done in routine and repetition, we'd begun to feel much more familiar with them. Don't get me wrong, th...

Dear Scarleteen, My name is Gavin, and I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months. Recently, things have gotten a lot more intimate and heated sexually. That has been an issue though, because we really don't want to be moving too fast, or allow special stuff like oral and manual sex to become ...

Yeah, I'll probably have to talk with her about that soon, and try to help her feel more comfortable. Honestly, I'm excited because it's so opportunity for us to grow closer! Thank you so much for all of this help! For someone who is quite clueless about most things sex related, this website is an e...

Yeah, I definitely don't have a problem with lack of communication or anything, because I understand how important that is in all aspects of a relationship. I just tend to overthink a lot of stuff, so that habit was probably causing me to be a little anxious. I do have one thing regarding communicat...

I also just thought if another quick question. Other than masturbation, how can I better understand my body and the more satisfying points of it?

Wow, you were reading my exact thoughts! While I was trying to pleasure her, I was really focused on causing her to orgasm. She didn't, and it's kind of been bothering me. She's been telling me that it's totally fine and she still absolutely loved it. Now it'll be easier to belive that, and to feel ...

Thank you for responding, Heather. And sorry about the whole 4 different posts things... I didn't know how on top of responding you guys were. Anyways, the way you explained it makes a lot of sense and helps clear a few things up. I was nervous that either I had done something wrong or that maybe my...

I'm 16, and a guy. The other day, I was with my girlfriend, and we were making out. The day before, we had talked about me fingering her for the first time. So I was excited that maybe the next time we made out, I'd get an opportunity to do so. I was probably over-thinking, but I was still pretty co...