Heather i have one question :) I just read almost all your articles and i feel that sti/std is having more risk than pregnancy. So, now i am close with a guy and if im planning to be together with him in a relationship, should i ask him to check himself about sti/std before we're getting closer too ...

That really makes sense! So in other words, pregnancy will happen when 2 people have that intention to have sex and very certain circumtances right? Not by accidental event when sperm get inside vagina through toilet seat, towels, etc (ha ha ha i know it wont)

The second statement is more make sense for me as it has the detail that penis has to touch and ejaculate than the first statement. Now i understand that we have to see semen in bigger picture not assuming it as a tiny creature which can travel everywhere :p really your second explanation clears eve...

Wait wait i dont really understand what are you asking me :( i just feel that some of the wording in your articles might be confusing for me. Maybe it is because i have never experienced those of things before. So im trying to be familiar with what youre talking about as its my early time learning a...

Yea!! Because i saw many people asking you about term 'direct' that makes me confuse too somehow when i first read it. And i have this discussion with my friends too and they also have different opinion so i go to this message board to make everything clear for me and for my friends :p I'll let my f...

Okay! Thanks for answering Sam. I have a suggestion for you because all of my friends are also confused with the term 'direct' which can sometimes be misleading for people. Maybe you can say pregnancy can happen when there's either genital-to-genital rubbing or/and penetration with ejaculation insid...

I just read that! So now i understand by direct means contact without any barrier and ejaculation at that time also right from penis, right? That was what i mean by asking you if pregnancy can happen by intention or can happen without intention. Because sperm that is left on toilet seat means that i...

Okay i sometimes afraid when using the same toilet bowl with my father if he left his sperm there and accidentally touch my vulva. Will that kind of contact be considered as 'direct'? As when i use toilet bowl, my vulva is naked.

Okay i thought 'direct' for number 2 is contact when vulva is naked (which can be misleading if there is a contact with semen on the toilet seat that touch vulva when peeing). So if there's any semen that is not freshly and newly ejaculated from penis, there's no risk in pregnancy if it accidentally...

I saw in your articles, there should be these two in order to make a pregnancy: 1. Direct contact between genitals 2. Direct contact with ejaculate (semen) and the vulva, vaginal opening or anus. I have a confusion with number 2. Is this included direct contact with a 'new' semen directly from penis...