That makes a lot of sense. I'm just still scared because if that's all that's shown in stuff like that it seems to set it as the norm and that anything different is gross or not taken care of. I would just hate to finally be confident and for a guy I trust to think something's wrong because it's not...

Thank you, that helps a lot. I guess, just all the videos I've ever seen a girls vagina is practically invisible, and I won't even let guys get close to me because I'm afraid I'll be the first person they're with to have a different looking one and they'll be freaked out like I was. It's so hard and...

Okay. So I know everyone asks questions about this. But I've been freaking out about it since I was 7. I am now 19, and have never had a relationship because I am too scared of how my vagina looks. One of my inner lips hangs down and is dark and wrinkled. Lately I've been looking up pictures of vagi...