Hey guys, Thanks for the suggestions earlier! So the guy reached out after me not contacting him for a week. He said that he still wants to hang out and didn't mean to push me away completely. We had the talk just yesterday, and I'm still trying to take in and process everything. So apparently he do...

You're welcome. :) One thing missing for me here is when you say this: I'm in no position of telling him not to try things out with this other person, but I guess only after comparison that he would really know who/what he wants. The thing is, you are in a position to ask for what you want and have...

I think that sometimes we -- as people -- can get so hung up on trying to understand why someone is doing something that isn't working for us, that we wind up getting distracted from what we have to do regardless, which is making our own decisions and choices based on what is happening, not WHY som...

Hello there, M_O. Sorry you are feeling like this and I hope you don't mind if I give you my two cents. Of course I'm not trying to convince you to do something you don't want to --and whatever you do is up to you!-- and I hope you know I understand you are in a tough spot. I hear you when you say ...

Hi M_O I think you can reach out once, to see what reaction you get back, as that may help you answer some of your questions about where the two of you stand. However, from what you're describing, it sounds like one of two things is likely to happen. One is that he will decide that he wants to expl...

I'm currently seeing a guy who is 8 years older than me, and he has been encouraging me to go out and see other men recently (We are still not exclusive after 4 months). Then I found out that the girl he had a crash on when 13/14 years old is finally having a opening relationships, and she is famili...