Thanks for the input thewrit3r. We have tried different kinds of sex and enjoy them, we were just looking to try out intercourse too.

So, after a while those changes will happen and it will feel better? We used lube both times, we just used more the second time. I was very wet the second time because he had just done the oral sex on me for a considerable period of time. I was nervous even though I wanted to do it, and he was too. ...

So. My boyfriend and I had intercourse for the first time recently. It was okay. It hurt when he went too far in, but that's all that was hurting, and whenever he accidentally did that, I just said it was too far and he pulled back a bit. So the first time was just getting used to things like that m...

- performing in the school musical
- singing auditions
- Thanksgiving

I really like holidays, so I feel like fall is so dense with things to celebrate.

Thanks for the speedy answer! I'll go boil it right now!

I have two questions. 1. I accidentally dropped my cup in the toilet (right after I flushed, so there was just water in there), and I picked it up right away and washed it with hot water and unscented ivory soap, what I usually use to wash it. Do I need to do anything else to sanitize it after dropp...

Okay, that's what I'll do then. I'll make it 2 weeks from last Sunday. Thanks for all your considerate advice everyone. It was helpful just to talk things out, too.

No, that was just for this particular thing. I still think I want to give things another try. Maybe I should set a specific amount of time, like 2 or 3 weeks, to try to fix things. I've been going back and forth all summer... And if we do break up, I want some summer left to myself and I want some t...

Yes, that discussion was the first of at least a few. I was told by someone I trust that if I want to fix the relationship, that I have to accept my boyfriend and myself as we are, and then I won't be disappointed by him anymore. I told my boyfriend about this and said that I would try. I know that ...

In general, they've been stressful. It was a discussion with vague plans.

Well, now we've started trying to work it out and he says he wants to have sex...

Also, I'm afraid to be alone after so long. I still have my girl friends, but I've put up walls with them over the last year, and I don't know if I still want to be friends with them like we were before.

I don't want to resent him or regret our relationship, because he's been my best friend and we've been there for each other, and that relationship will probably continue in some way. But I feel like he stole the perfect high school sweethearts relationship from me. That's selfish, I know. He seems p...

Now I'm the one who made you wait, sorry. This week we had 2 good days, and they were really good. We had one okay day. And we had one awful fight. This has kind of been the pattern recently. Looking at it all laid out like that, it's not something I want to keep going with, but in those good days i...

Okay, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I'll do the same.

Thank you for talking with me. I've talked to him about honestly wanting to see him more and how much he's working, and he pretty much just says that he can't come and see me all the time and he does want to spend time with me even though he got multiple jobs for the summer. I still bug him about it...

Okay. Well, there were a few times when it was late at night and I didn't want to be alone, but we weren't really talking about anything and he went to bed. I probably should have just gone to bed too. Then there's that he can't just hang out after school or casually because he has strict parents an...

I guess I don't feel supported enough, but I know that I should feel supported because he cares about me and tries to help me, and does help me.

Is it possible that I'm making my boyfriend feel like he isn't good enough because I don't feel good enough for him? We've been together for 2 1/2 years. We never used to fight at all. For a long time, the dynamic was that he wasn't doing so well (depression), and I would try my best to take care of...

What I do with the panties I don't want my mom to see is wash them in the sink when she isn't home. Then I dry them with a combination of a hair dryer and wrapping them in a towel and stomping on it. Lace ones try in just a few minutes, so you don't need to be alone for long. I hope this helps!

Yes, I agree. They are accepted, but not as actual relationships, just as sexy flings for men's pleasure. That makes sense.

It ticks me off too, it can be really hard to find validation as a bisexual. I feel like people often compare being bisexual to the struggle of being gay in this society, and that makes it seem like not such a big deal. It can be a big deal, though, and it's like being straight, in terms of acceptan...

My boyfriend has a great butt, it's way better than mine.

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that I think I remember you posting about that before.

It's such a nice feeling to have that little piece of paper in my pocket, or to find one in a pair of jeans I haven't washed for a little while. I think I'll keep these notes for a really long time, no matter when the relationship ends. I'm sorry no notes were given back, that wouldn't feel good aft...