Really? I thought that since it was a muscle that I would be able to "stretch" it so it wouldn't hurt as bad when I have actual sex for the first time.

Ok here's my overly complicated story: I'm in a friend group where sex is something talked about a lot. It's been a normal thing for awhile. I'm a senior in high school, and I have not had sex. But, i told my friends that i lost my virginity sophomore year. With 0 to little romantic action till now,...