Update time :) I told my mom to just except that I know my own feelings and she's finally not fought me on it. She's still a tad unwelcomeing to the idea. She said she's just scared that I'll loose my leadership positions in my church if I tell everyone. So yeah :) Did you ever find any resources fo...

The counsellor thing is because of my mom but only because she thinks she's not focusing enough on why I'm there (abuse and how it's affected me) she's trying to get me to see a counsellor that she knows personally (which I'm kinda iffy about, I was actually going to ask about this situation in anot...

I don't know if we even have any pro-lgbt Christian stuff here. My city is just starting to get more accepting to lgbt folk and the churches are not there yet. If we do I haven't found any.

And no, my mom didn't want me going so I didn't end up going and I haven't seen that counsellor since...

Her policy on lgbt+ people in general is don't ask don't tell, she's had people in her past who have been close friends and also homosexual but she wasn't super supportive (like when one had issues with his partner she didn't offer any help). She is a Christian and very "by the book"(altho...

Yeah, that'd be helpful, I'm kinda desperate. Every time I try to bring up the subject it turns into an argument and she says I don't respect her judgement... anything would help

So I've "come out" to my mom on several occasions but she didn't take it seriously. She thinks because I've never been in a relationship I can't decide who I'm attracted to. She says how I can't be sure or how I don't want to put myself in a box of I don't know for sure. I always come out ...