Heather, yes, I would like to be able to have a sexual relationship with my boyfriend. I want to be able to experience that with him beyond the physical aspect of it, but as of now, I'm not sure of it, so I get what you're saying with exploring my own sexuality. Thank you so much for all your insigh...

Heather, thank you for taking the time to post such a detailed response. I'll try to hit on every point as best I can. I think I can begin by committing to setting aside real time and energy to start to learn about and explore my own sexuality. Now, I'd like to give my boyfriend some credit here. I ...

Heather, in all honesty, I haven't had much experience with this. I went to both a Catholic grade school and high school and we weren't given much education in the area of sex ed and neither of my parents ever really had a talk with me. So everything I learned, I learned from my friends and looking ...

Ruth, your insight has been very helpful and makes perfect sense. We've been discussing taking a break. Not from each other, just from sexual activities for now. What other kinds of intimate/romantic activities did you have in mind aside from that? We'll go on picnics sometimes or snuggle while watc...

marianthe: Thankfully, I am in a relationship where I can share any and every thought I have with my boyfriend without having him get upset. So yes, we've discussed it multiple times and he understands. He doesn't want to force anything on me and he's willing to be patient and wait for me to figure ...

Hi all, I recently submited this question to the sexperts, but maybe some of you can help me out as well? Maybe not as it seems most of you are experiencing problems that I did when I first started dating many years ago. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. When it all started, I was an ...