Thanks Sam!
I wouldn’t be where I am now without all of you!

Hi all! I came to scarleteen a few years ago now, feeling lost and super confused about sex and where I was in my head with it! I wasn’t interested in it, I didn’t feel ready for it. I then had that choice taken away from me and the support and kindness each of you showed was amazing and it helped m...

Hi,

Thanks for all of your advise.
We had a very honest conversation.which didn’t go how i’d Expected! Or how I wanted it to really!

We have parted ways.

It Will probably feel better in time but right now feels raw and I feel hurt.

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Hi Mo, I am gonna take some time to think because I’m actually pretty hurt by her comment. I’m aware of my likes and dislikes. I feel like I’ve voiced them enough both during sexual activities and outside of them. I feel like what I said to her didn’t go in. Like she wasn’t listening and that kinda ...

Hi, Im not the best when talking about sex with her or anyone really but I’m getting much better and feel more able to express myself in the conversations we’ve had previous as a couple. We had a conversation where I asked her some of the things Heather suggested, I asked if we could set aside some ...

Hi Al, No, I didn’t come into this relationship thinking it would last this long and I certainly didn’t expect it to become ‘serious’ I didnt think it would last because people kept telling me it wouldn’t. So I guess in the beginning I was just having fun with it and now it got to the stage where it...

I’m sorry I asked something you hadn’t written about :oops: I understand what you’re saying about the beginning of a relationship being sharp and that can wear off over time. I am comfortable with her, in a lot of ways. As for the spontaneity what I mean is that when we first started out we were hav...

That’s awesome news! Well not awesome in the sense that it’s not great sex! But awesome in the sense that it seems this could be a bump and that its possible it isn’t going to be forever! I will take on board the suggestions from your earlier post and communicate with her about how we might get to a...

Hey,

Thanks for the reply.

It’s been 6months now although I was alone abroad for a month of that.

The suggestions you’ve made sound do-able! I do want to try!

Hi Heather, Yes apart from this issue I’m doing much better thank you! I hope things are good with you too? I am turned on by her yes. A lot. Physically. Emotionally connected. She just gets me. She’s smart, funny and listens and I feel connected to her. It hasn’t always been this way sexually. To s...

Hi, I’ve been having sex with my current partner and although I find her physically attractive. The sex isn’t doing much for me. I feel like I communicate enough during sex and we do talk about it a lot but as soon as anything actually happens between us, I find it really hard to enjoy it. I feel li...

Perfect thank you

Hi Heather,

Yes I meant. US pelvis trans abdominal and transvaginal ultrasounds.

Sorry I just thought it might need to come out beforehand!

Thanks

Hi,

I was fitted with a mirena coil last year. I’ve got to have an internal ultrasound, Will they be able to do this with the coil in place or will I need to see the doc to have it removed first?
I’m not totally sure how the coil is fitted or where it sits.

Thanks

Hi! Thanks for you’re reply. She’s my tutor and during lessons we’ve had conversations about sex and she can be touchy freely which lead me to believe she was interested. We’ve also been to dinner a couple times and out for the day which she says she hasn’t done with other pupils. If she wants to ju...

Hi! I was on chat last night with Mo and I said I had sent a drunken text to a woman I find attractive. At that point she hadn’t replied and Mo suggested sober texting her about it. I did that this morning. She replied with ‘I know you think I’m hot and yes I think you’re a very attractive woman. I ...

Thank you once again for your advise
I found it easier to discuss it with you than my friends to start with, hope that’s ok?!

Hi, Yes I understand that going forward with this is not advisable. I get what you are saying. Deep down I know this isn’t going to work, I know I want a relationship and marriage that is holistic and that this isn’t. I love them but I know going forward it’s not going to help. I get that in your me...

Hey! We only got engaged a few days ago, huge proposal in front of a lot of people, one that I have entered into knowing what our sex life has been like and one that I could see to marriage if we iron out the creases but I see what you are saying that it’s not likely to happen so I guess the answer ...

Hi Sam, Thanks for the reply. Yes it felt very negative towards me and that I somehow needed to change the way I am and what I do. I mentioned something I just wasn’t ok with and was told it was one of their favs and perhaps if we tried this or that it would be better for me. Erm no! I just don’t li...

Hey, So we had a honest and open convo and they said they were sorry about the phone call and didn’t realise I might take offence to it. But agreed That it was the wrong thing to do after I explained. They wished I’d speak more about my fantasies and maybe dress a little differently, that they wish ...

no we’re not doing it for any benefit reasons.

I will have the convo with them. See where we get to.

If this thing isn’t compatible sexually then that opens up a whole heap of other convos I guess.
Sex in a relationship to me is a big deal, it’s a major part of it.

Ringers should Defo be off! Regardless of who starts the activity! What’s more important in that given moment, the person you’re playing with or someone that wants a car part fixed smh! We sit talk daily about things, general things so perhaps this will be tonight’s topic of conversation. I really a...

At times it has been sexually satisfying, when We have both been all in. It’s good. When they are distracted by other stuff it’s useless but it’s them that suggest sexual activity. They say they are satisfied (when they are all in) I get that sex isn’t everything in a relationship but it’s a huge pa...

Hi Heather, Generally very well thanks! Hope you are too?! I said at the time that I didn’t like them answering the phone, to Which they did say sorry but they thought it was important. I’ve mentioned before to them that talking about random things isn’t exactly a turn on but it doesn’t seem to have...