Sorry for my terminology there by "actual sex" I meant penis-in-vagina sex. That's the kind that the thought of doing makes me stress. Thank you for the advice!

Hi there I'm a 21 year old female virgin and I'm curious to know if fingering yourself hurts? I do masturbate already, mostly with a vibrator but just on the outside. Never anything penetrative before. I dunno why I'm so apprehensive about it. I tried a few times but I couldn't follow through becaus...

Thanks so much Sam, this was very helpful!:)

Thank you for responding :) I definitely have been making an effort to get out more the past few months and I sing in the university choir as a way to just get away from medicine and meet new people. I met somebody I liked at choir but it was a one-sided thing (I've never had those kinda feelings re...

Hey guys! So let me get right to it. I'm 21, I'm a med student and I'm still single. Many people in my class are married, in a stable relationship or something similar. I feel myself becoming very angry and bitter at the whole situtation because I feel like something is the matter with me. I'm so ti...

I'm Bourdie now but my old handle was MissT:) (I think, it's been a while since I've been here!)