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by bikinksterboy
Sun Sep 02, 2018 11:33 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?
Replies: 3
Views: 6680

Re: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?

well the goal of masturbation isn't always orgasm, I think that's a pretty big assumption to say that the goal of masturbation after puberty *is* definitively to achieve orgasm
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
Replies: 3
Views: 3555

Re: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.

I found this article, which may help. Staff can look over this and remove if it's inaccurate or problematic
https://www.tbotech.com/thumbcuffs-what ... e-used.htm
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:50 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
Replies: 3
Views: 3555

Re: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.

right away I guess one of the big risks could be the cuffs blocking blood circulation, and most of the risks that are associated with handcuffs are probably also present with thumb and toe cuffs.
by bikinksterboy
Mon Aug 20, 2018 8:37 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Have you ever had relationship expectations that turned out to be unrealistic?
Replies: 7
Views: 5537

Re: Have you ever had relationship expectations that turned out to be unrealistic?

I used to think I'd be able to "fix" or "make better" people just by being in a relationship with them. It was probably from a place of naiveté more than anything, assuming I could just make years of trauma or intense emotions built up over months simply go away
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:06 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 18
Views: 13487

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

met again on Sunday! it was great
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:06 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
Replies: 21
Views: 19594

Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?

-halloween again! 80s horror marathon with bf and binge-watching Castlevania season 2~
-BF's birthday<3 he's so much to me and I finally get to give him a proper gift this time!
-Shazam! looks like a great movie
-Rosh Hashanah celebrations with family
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: First starting to date
Replies: 5
Views: 4311

Re: First starting to date

update: I suppose you can say ive dated physically now because my partner and I finally Met in person about a month ago and again on Sunday
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:54 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: What's your concept of your gender like?
Replies: 24
Views: 22038

Re: What's your concept of your gender like?

okay so half of my rant there makes little sense to me now. I'm confident in my being male, but to say right now that I don't have a feminine side or that doing traditionally feminine things doesn't excite me partially because of said femininity would be a lie
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:52 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: "closeted" not out of circumstance?
Replies: 3
Views: 7521

Re: "closeted" not out of circumstance?

an update: I came out to my parents on the same day I told them about my partner and they accept me wholeheartedly!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:50 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: What is your "Coming Out" Story?
Replies: 8
Views: 10755

Re: What is your "Coming Out" Story?

update: I came out to my parents on the same day I told them about my partner and they accept me wholeheartedly!
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:49 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
Replies: 17
Views: 18772

Re: How has your gender expression evolved?

update: my actual expression hasn't changed, but now I'm more comfortable in understanding and accepting my feminine side and that I like things like skirts because of their feminine associations and that's okay
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:46 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?
Replies: 18
Views: 14869

Re: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?

an update:in the past 2 years I've become more flexible (in both ways hehe) and become more comfortable in my own skin in relation to partners, and I've learned how to properly shave my genital region
by bikinksterboy
Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:42 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: power bottom?
Replies: 1
Views: 5839

Re: power bottom?

yo this thread still exists
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 02, 2018 3:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 18
Views: 13487

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

Oh,I’m sorry I failed to mention that. Yeah, we’re long distance seeing as we live in different states
by bikinksterboy
Thu Aug 02, 2018 3:15 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 18
Views: 13487

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

we met up in person for the first time last month! it was great!!
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:23 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Has our recent culture changed your sex life?
Replies: 6
Views: 5188

Re: Has our recent culture changed your sex life?

hearing about changes in the rights of LGBTQ+ individuals to adopt has got me concerned in the past about my future with my partner as we had discussed children before and worries that that possibility could be cut off were definitely there
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:20 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex Toys
Replies: 3
Views: 4968

Re: Sex Toys

I've used a spare hairbrush as a DIY sex toy, but more recently I haven't had non-shared items to use
are all flashlight-and-tenga-like toys necessarily single-use items?
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:16 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What's your favourite Scarleteen article?
Replies: 7
Views: 6812

Re: What's your favourite Scarleteen article?

my answer will likely change within a month, but http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_maybe_so_a_sexual_inventory_stocklist has been infinitely helpful in assessing what I really want and am comfortable with and in preparing me to initiate conversations with partners about what they want ...
by bikinksterboy
Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:08 am
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: What's "Real Sex?" (Seriously.)
Replies: 14
Views: 30850

Re: What's "Real Sex?" (Seriously.)

since I first became aware of kinds of sex other than intercourse I've always sort of thought "yeah, that's just another kind of sex." it just made sense to me. I suppose I have still taken some things to be "foreplay" but I don't lump foreplay activities like manual, making out,...
by bikinksterboy
Thu May 31, 2018 7:29 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
Replies: 21
Views: 19594

Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?

meeting my boyfriend in July~ so excited!!!
by bikinksterboy
Thu May 31, 2018 7:28 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
Replies: 18
Views: 13487

Re: ANNIVERSARY!

still going strong!
by bikinksterboy
Thu May 31, 2018 7:20 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 19198

Re: Good love songs?

okay! Vocaloid time! this one I think is really beautiful - Wrinkle performed by Gumi This is so saccharine I might as well be diabetic, I love it - Rin Rin Signal performed by the Kagamine Twins (Rin and Len) this is absolutely beautiful - One Hundred Years of Love performed by the one and only Hat...
by bikinksterboy
Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:13 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story
Replies: 9
Views: 7668

Re: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story

An addendum: I guess you could say various vampires and other such characters in fiction who have assumed multiple guises of different genders and thus been ‘heterosexual’ with males and females counts, in which case I’d include Doctor Who among others. Also, other than sexuality one of the first ti...
by bikinksterboy
Fri Mar 09, 2018 8:43 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: should I tell him?
Replies: 10
Views: 5119

Re: should I tell him?

said guy I broke up with and I currently am with someone else and have been for over a year, as documented in my other threads
by bikinksterboy
Wed Jan 24, 2018 7:39 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Good love songs?
Replies: 22
Views: 19198

Re: Good love songs?

as cheesy as it sounds, I'd check out some old Rick Astley songs. he's just so earnest and shit. none of that "ay girl i love you bitch" stuff