Do you think you can try and start applying that last paragraph to yourself? In other words, for sure: we can feel disappointed when we want something with someone sexually they don't, but disappointment is no big whoop. We get over it, and usually fast. And ideally, someone shouldn't feel bad abou...

Can I ask if you generally feel guilt when someone wants something from you you don't, or isn't right to give, or if you're only having those feelings around someone wanting sex from/with you? Too, if you wanted something sexual with/from him that he didn't want, or wasn't right for him, can you sa...

Have you yet said everything to him you just said to us here? If not, do you think you can try that and see where the conversation goes from there? Also, it sounds to me like you're feeling guilty because someone wants something from you you don't presently want to give and don't currently want you...

Hi, So, my long distance boyfriend and I started our relationship by being very sexual and have "Skype sex" and phone sex often. 4 months before I met him, I was sexually assaulted (not by him, because I didn't know him then) and then I started being very sexual online. Once I met him, I w...

As for your last question, cumming and orgasming are two terms often used to describe the same thing, so I'm not entirely sure of the situation; can you clarify what is and isn't happening there? Okay, so what I mean is when I'm using a dildo something will happen (which I think is cumming or somet...

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I met up with a guy I met online (yeah, I know it was a stupid decision) and he ended up sexually assaulting me. I keep wanting to go back to him and do more sexual things, but I know I shouldn't. Is that a normal thing to think? Also, how can I make sure I don't go back to him?

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Hi, So, I use dildos and vibrators for masturbation a lot and it doesn't feel like what I've heard sex should feel like. I would think that because I'm putting something that is shaped like a penis inside me it should feel similar to penis to vaginas sex. However, it only feels kind of good. Additio...