Hmm, I'm ok with body parts that are flawed, I've got some body parts that are severely flawed and I'm alright with it, it's just that breasts are a big part of femininity and sex and so on that it's quite hard to feel sexy with them looking like that. So by positive body image I just meant feeling ...

Rather, perhaps, as I was trying to suggest, you may need to come at this very differently, like by exploring or expanding all the kinds of things you can find pleasure in, not just sexual pleasure. Again, that's multi-sensory experiences where you may or can experience pleasure: anything from hike...

Reading sex scenes in books is mildly stimulating. Sometimes I read erotica and I'll find myself wet but I don't have sexual pleasure. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to re-introduce myself to my sexual self, because I'm not sure what there is left to explore. I've imagined all sorts of things, some v...

Books?

Nah I wasn't in a relationship with him and I'm not in one now.

I wasn't very excited before any kind of genital touch. Kissing and biting and so on didn't really do much for me, it was enjoyable but not that enjoyable. And before any touching at all, I didn't start feeling pretty excited either. I think I have. I watch all kinds of porn to try to get myself wet...

Hmm, it's a shame that even masturbation doesn't lead to very good orgasms for me either, even though I've explored every inch of my body in all sorts of different ways. I can orgasm, but really an orgasm for me these days is just a pulsating vagina, very mild pleasure and a relaxed feeling. Not lik...

I hear you saying that the sexual activities you shared with one partner did not feel good to you, and you did not feel sexually excited with this one person. Do I have that right, or are you expressing a larger pattern - with more than one partner, and over a good deal of time? This one partner on...

Sex and kissing and stuff doesn't feel good to me. When I was very young (11-13) my orgasms were amazing and I could get aroused by things, especially kissing. But I recently lost my virginity at the age of 21 (I haven't done anything sexual since I was 11) and even though the guy was extremely attr...